(Closed) Destination Wedding…who to invite to shower/bachelorette??

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I invite people to shower/stagette that were not invited to destination wedding?
    Yes : (1 votes)
    14 %
    No : (6 votes)
    86 %
    Other, see comment below : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    Member
    107 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I don’t see a problem with it – this is a different situation than the normal “I want them to come to the shower but not the wedding” thing. A lot of reasons go into not asking people to travel – money for one, distance, style of the wedding, etc. If they’re going to be celebrating with you at some point though, namely, when you’re back at home with your big at home reception, I think that’s fine. My cousins did that and nobody’s feelings were hurt – in fact, a lot of people were relieved that they didn’t have to make a huge trip, and were absolutely fine with the other traditional wedding aspects like attending the shower and the at-home reception.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1750 posts
    Buzzing bee

    @PuntaCanaBride: I think its fine. Even if you send them an invite many would not be able to make it. You’re good, proceed with your plans.  

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