- Mrs. Louboutin
- 11 years ago
- Wedding: June 2010
One more thing I will add is that the relationship with the man you marry should be the easiest relationship you have ever experienced. This means little or no drama, constant love, etc. No relationship is perfect, but this means there are no games, no break up/ make up over and over again.
I just clicked on the OP’s profile and saw all of the posts she has made over the past 5 months about her boyfriend not treating her right. This isn’t how the relationship with the man you marry should be or is (for most of us).
OP – I really hope this works out for you. In response to your prior response to me – you mention “DD” – is this a child of yours? If so, I was unaware of that and can totally understand why you aren’t willing to uproot your life. On the same token though, if your BF was so committed to you, he would uproot his for yours. I have two male cousins and one close male friend who married women with children from another relationship when they, themselves, had no children and in every case they changed their life for their now wives (and not vice versa) because of the child. One literally moved across the country. You mentioned that your BF is only an hour away. He wouldn’t even need to change jobs I imagine to just move closer to you. I’m not trying to be a stick in the mud, but you sound like such a good person and like you are putting your all into this relationship. You deserve someone better.