Hey, I’m really sorry you’re going through this. You’re handling it well. But you need to stop worrying about how he feels, what messages he’s leaving, or anything about him. If he calls hang up, if he texts – delete it. If he writes, burn it. Don’t keep it, memorise it, copy it down and write it out on here. DELETE IT. Do something positive, don’t dwell on it.
I’ve read most of these messages and I’m gonna be blunt with you (from experience).
He sounds like a guy who’s realised his doormat/back up plan (YOU) has wised up – UH OH!
Maybe he went for the hot girl or something else (maybe that chick on facebook) and it didnt work, so he wanted to come crawling back to “back up plan” and it’s not working.
And fair enough it doesn’t work. F**K him, you can do better. You and DD deserve someone reliable who wants to shout his love from the rooftops. Who knows the first time he sees you that he’s going to propose within 2 months and you’re gonna turn him down cos it’s too soon for you 😉
Do not play this players games. Change your phone numbers and email addresses, or set an auto-reply to his email address saying “This email address is no longer in service.”
Haha, I just read the big about a “shut up” ring. Yes! I’ve always wanted a name for that. Don’t accept a “shut up” ring babe, don’t do it. Don’t accept anything, even a lousy f’ing text.
If you were in his shoes and you loved him and he wasn’t replying, what would you do? I know I’d be on the first bus, plane etc to your house banging on the door, standing outside with my boom box high in the air playing Peter Gabriel’s “In Your Eyes” (see Say Anything… movie).
You’re all good. You’re doing great. Keep him out of your head.: )