(Closed) Devastated…my mom just died and its a week until my wedding.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 62
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1611 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: Central Park

She may have moved from this world but her spirit will always be watching over you. I’m so sorry this happened to you. <<hugs>>

Post # 63
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1374 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Pavilion overlooking golf course scenery, reception at banquet hall

I’m so sorry to read this, my heart breaks for you because I went through almost the exact same thing. My mom died of a sudden heart attack in November, and I also didn’t get to say goodbye. I also saw her the weekend before, and was also shopping for ribbon for the wedding with her. There are no words that I can say to ease the pain, and I’m so sorry that her death and your wedding are so close.

I will say this – people are going to be offering a lot of support, and a lot of ideas of how to memorialize your mom at your wedding. It is okay to tell them no thank you, if anything doesn’t feel right. If you think it will make you too emotional, rejecting an idea is not at all an insult to your mom’s memory. You need to grieve how YOU feel comfortable grieving. Some people prefer public displays, and some prefer to grieve internally and with only those closest to you. There is no wrong way to grieve.

Please feel free to PM me if you need to talk – about anything. From emotions to wedding plans. The numbness on day 2 is horrible, and I want to give you a big hug.

Post # 64
Bee
237 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. big hugs.

Post # 65
Member
1029 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

My heart is breaking for you. I’m in tears for you but I’m sorry if that’s inappropriate. I am so sorry for your loss particularly at this time. You will have a wonderful and meaningful wedding. Take care

Post # 66
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55 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

So sorry for your loss.

Post # 67
Hostess
1606 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I am so, so, soooo sorry!  I couldn’t imagine going through what you are going through.  Stay strong and now that you have family and friends surrounding you right now who are there for whatever you need — whether it’s justa  shoulder to cry on or a home cooked meal.  <3

Post # 68
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2265 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

@HeyJude72:  I am so very, very sorry for your loss. 

Both my parents have passed away and can tell you this – you never, ever really lose them.  I always imagined I feel this terrible empty spot in my life that could never be filled again but it isn’t like that at all.  Their love for you and yours for them never, ever goes away.  Even though my parents aren’t here, I know them well enough that I can just imagine what they would say, do, think, want – they gave me the gift of their guidance and unconditional love and support and all that remains too.

My thoughts and prayer are with you and your family.

 

Post # 69
Member
575 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

So so so sorry for your loss. 

Post # 70
Hostess
2203 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Such a tragedy…I’m so very very soory Cry

Post # 71
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395 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

So sorry for your loss.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers as well.

Post # 72
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207 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Glen Sanders Mansion

@HeyJude72:  I am so very sorry for your loss.  She will certainly be looking down and smiling as you celebrate your wedding.  Celebrate her life, from what you’ve said about her, it’s what she would have wanted.  Hugs and prayers your way xo

Post # 73
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192 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I am so sorry for your loss! I lost my mom suddenly last fall and also never got to say goodbye. It tore me apart. She never even got to help me plan our wedding. Though it may be hard, try to remember the joy she brought you- it sounds like she had a big part in creating your wedding and was very excited for you. She will be there, just not in the way you had expected. You can never truly understand how a loss like this feels until you’ve been there. Feel free to PM me if you need someone to listen.

Post # 74
Member
526 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry.

Post # 75
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2247 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Oh hon, I’m so sorry to hear this! 🙁

Post # 76
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662 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Your wedding will be beautiful, OP.

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