(Closed) Devastated…my mom just died and its a week until my wedding.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 92
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

My thoughts and love go out to you and your family. xx

Post # 93
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I cannot imagine how difficult this must be for you.  Hugs!!!

Sending prayers your way.

Post # 94
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@HeyJude72: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know it will be hard to have your wedding without your mom there, bless your heart. But just remember she would want you to continue on, and you can bet that she will be by your side that whole day in spirit.  Remember you always have everyone here for support as well. :

Post # 95
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m so sorry. There are no comforting words at a time like this. Just know there are hundreds of people wishing you comfort and peace right now.

Post # 96
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Busy bee

I’m so very sorry 🙁

I’m so glad to know that she was at least able to be part of the tastings, shopping and wedding planning with you – now at least when you are at your wedding you will have a dozen things there that she helped you choose and you’ll think of how she IS there at your wedding, all around you… and maybe that will bring you some joy on your day!

Post # 97
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

I’m so sorry.

I lost my dad the same way and it takes a lot of time to heal and come to terms with the fact that we never got to say goodbye.

Just know that she will be with you every step of the way on your wedding day. ((((big hugs))))

Post # 98
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Helper bee

My condolances. I’m so sorry 🙁 Sending prayers and positive energy your way.

Post # 99
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I am so sorry to hear this.  *hugs* and love.  You are in my thoughts.

Post # 100
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Oh my gosh… I am so sorry for your loss. I am sending prayers your way. <3

Post # 101
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

omg.  My mom had the same thing, and the fact taht it happens so fast is a blessing and acurse. 

 

That said, my older brother died about two weeks before my younger brother’s wedding.  He had the wedding.  I can tell you, your family needs this.  It’s so amazing to have them around you during the worst time of your life, then to gather around again for the best time.  I’m sure this sounds weird but my brother’s wedding was amazing. 

Post # 102
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m so sorry!  

But I’m glad you’re having the wedding.  Your mom would probaby want that.  At least you’ll have family around you.  Don’t forget to celebrate the start of your new life though, even though everyone will probably be grieving.

My own father died of a heart attack several years ago and it was so terrible.  I still cry about it when I think he won’t be at my wedding or that I can’t have a father/daughter dance.  Or even just random things still make me cry about it.

I was thinking about doing some kind of memorial for him at the wedding, but even though he’s been gone a while now, I think that having that reminder  of losing him might make me break down at the wedding, and I really don’t want to do that.  

 

Post # 103
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

So sorry for your loss…..I can’t even imagine what you must be feeling.

Post # 104
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

shedding tears for you.  my deepest sympathies for you and yours.  

Post # 105
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@HeyJude72:  So, so sorry. I’ll be thinking about you!

I think you’re right and your mom would have wanted you to still have the wedding. I’m sure you will find an amazing way to honor her there <333

Post # 106
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

((Hugs)) Honey I’m so sorry. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during such a difficult time. It’s so beautiful that your mom was a big part of the planning and lead up to the wedding. She’s going to be there with you every step of the way and for the rest of your life, too. 

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