(Closed) DEVASTATION!! My Fiance HATES My Dress!

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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Busy bee

How do you know he wont like this one also? It’s a shot in the dark.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I wouldn’t worry too much about what he thinks honestly, because he hasnt seen the dress ON you.

I did the same thing and my Fiance didn’t choose my dress from the options I had given him. I’m not too worried about it.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

This is why I don’t think the guy should really have a say in the dress. I mean, he can suggest, but I am against showing him dress pictures. He doesn’t have a say in what I wear any other day, so why on the wedding day?

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Can we see a picture of the original dress? I’m curious to see what style it is.

I agree- he can’t judge until he sees it ON you. Like how when we go shopping and something looks dreadful on the hanger, but awesome once we put it on. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

To be honest, when he sees you he will not be thinking about the dress…he’s going to see how beautiful you look walking down the aisle as his wife!! 

My mom told me that she’s never seen a bride’s dress look bad, because the bride is so glowing and beautiful on her wedding day.

My Fiance hates a certain type of dress and I ended up LOVING that style on me. I didn’t buy a dress like that, but I showed him what it looked like on me and he changed his mind!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@lochnessy:  Don’t show him anymore pictures. They aren’t photos of you…he will love any dress that he sees YOU in!

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

From seeing my fiance look at wedding dresses, you’d think he hates ALL of them.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@lochnessy:  CAn you post the first dress that your fiance didnt like?? curious to see the difference!! 

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

Guys are idiots. I can guarantee when he sees you on the big day he will LOVE IT. Stop showing him dresses!!!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee

I agree, stop showing him dresses, and by the time the wedding rolls arond he will have forgotten anyway. Don’t sweat it.  I’m sure his mind will be on other things, and he will be nervous. He won’t throw a fit if he sees you in that dress.

 

 

Post # 13
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

go with you original dress you fell in love with! 

Stock images look nothing like the actual dresses.  I did the same thing with my Fiance but when I showed him me in the dress he loved it and commented how different it looked in real life from the photo.

He will love you in whatever you wear once he sees you all dressed up on your wedding day. And if he throws a fit about your dress, I think you should reconsider signing that marriage license. 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

you should do a search on here, there are many bees who’ve posted the same thing, but when the groom saw her he didnt even realize it was the same dress and loved it… guys are funny like that. when he sees you coming down that aisle, he wont care what you’re wearing, even the picky ones, you’d be so surprised. Even on say yes to the dress, the brides end up picking something that the groom didnt approve and at the end, they always say something like: I can’t believe that’s the same dress., I love it.. BUT-that being said, go with whatever dress you love (assuming it’s in the budget). good luck!

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Yes please post original dress! I’m sure he’ll love whatever you walk down the aisle in. Guys have no clue sometimes! The second dress is gorgeous though- he has to love it! My Fiance wants to be kept in the dark about anything I’m wearing on wedding day- this is the best way to go imho!!

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