(Closed) DEVASTATION!! My Fiance HATES My Dress!

posted 7 years ago in Dress
Post # 17
2389 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I like your original dress much better.  I have no idea why you’re showing your fiance dresses if you want it to be a surprise – you’re causing yourself unnecessary grief.

Post # 18
3139 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

i prefer the original dress but you have to choose the one you feel the most beautiful in. What a dress looks like in a magazine vs you in it in real life are two totally different things. 

Post # 19
544 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@lochnessy:  do you have a pic of u in the new dress?

Post # 20
352 posts
Helper bee

I agree with PP — I like the original dress better.  Also with hair, makeup, dress, and wedding ceremony it will look different.  You should go with the one you love more, he will like it that day.

Post # 21
8036 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@lochnessy:  If I were you I’d stop asking his opinion. What’s to say he’ll like this one?

It’ll look different on you than the model anyway.

Glad you were able to sort the situation out, though!

Post # 22
1360 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I thonk both gowns are pretty, but I do somewhat agree with your Fiance comments, I dont think the bottom matches with the rest. You look very pretty in it but I like the second one better 😉 

Post # 23
177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I wouldn’t show him any more pictures, you’ll probably end up more confused! I’m sure he’ll love any dress you pick when he sees you walking down the aisle. 🙂

Post # 24
52 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

I never let my Fiance pick out my clothes any other day, so I definitely will not be showing him any pictures of wedding dresses for his input.  Ultimately what you wear will determine a lot of how comfortable you feel that day.  If you are wearing a dress that you love and feel fits you, it will show.

  Also, I agree with the posters who said showing pictures of the dress will not give him a true picture of what you would look like in it.  There might have been something about the model that he didn’t like or the overall presentation of the picture.  

I did have one boyfriend (now a long gone ex) who tried to tell me not to wear a black dress to the symphony because it was summertime I just said, “Thank you Versace, I will definitely take that into consideration” with the most sarcastic grin. hehe

Post # 25
1192 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

He’s going to love you no matter what you’re wearing. He loves you in your sweats or in your current fanciest dress, right? So why should it matter to him what your dress looks like. I know for a fact that my Fiance hates “poofy princess dresses” but I’ve always dreamt of a ballgown, or at the very least a full A-line so I asked him what he would do if I showed up at our wedding in the biggest Scarlett O’Hara ballgown he’d ever seen and he said that if that’s what I wanted to pick I would still look beautiful in it and he’d love me all the same. 

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