Post # 1
found out today, at 11 weeks 3 days, I had a missed miscarriage. We saw the heartbeat at 7w and it was measuring perfectly. I had zero symptoms that anything was wrong. No bleeding or cramping. We went in today for an ultrasound and nothing was there. No heartbeat. I feel so devestated. I worked so so hard for this. I have a medical issue that had me preparing for months and months for this. I feel so sad that we have to start all over again and have no answers.
Post # 2
Big hugs to you, I am so very sorry.
Post # 3
I am so sorry for your loss, and wish you much healing and love.
Post # 4
I’m so sorry for your loss
Post # 5
*mountains of hugs* i’m so very very sorry :'(
Post # 6
I’m am soo sooo sorry for you loss. It can be devastating, however you must stay strong with your partner. Lean on each other through this tough time.
Just because you miscarry once doesn’t mean you’ll miscarry again. It can sometimes be more healing to seek couples therapy to talk about the grief to another person.
I want you to understand it was not your fault. And especially knowing that you tried so hard to get pregnant. It was out of your power and it unfortunately does happen.
Also, I recommend going on a little trip with just you and your SO once you have some time to grieve and process. It is your love for one another that made it possible to get pregnant and will make it possible to get pregnant again in the future.
We too had fertility issues and with the help of doctors were successful. It was a long and tough road but it is the most amazing feeling. I really truly hope you get to experience this as well. I really wish you luck and we’re always here for you if you need to get something off your chest to vent.
Post # 8
- Wedding: September 2011 - Boy #1 12/2015, boy #2 02/2018
I am so sorry. Life can be so unfair sometimes. Hugs to you.
Post # 9
Thanks, all. I just can’t believe it. My mom died a couple months ago. I thought after so much pain life would cut me a break.
Post # 10
I’m so, so very sorry for your loss. The same happened to me with my first pregnancy at just over 10 weeks. I was also devastated and quite depressed for about a month. I just felt that it was so unfair. My only advice is to take time to mourn and move on to trying again when you’re ready. After my missed MC, I was pregnant again 4 months later and now have a 2 year old son.