(Closed) Devestated

posted 5 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

Big hugs to you, I am so very sorry.

Post # 3
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I am so sorry for your loss, and wish you much healing and love. 

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m so sorry for your loss 

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2017

*mountains of hugs* i’m so very very sorry :'(

Post # 6
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Worker bee

I’m am soo sooo sorry for you loss. It can be devastating, however you must stay strong with your partner. Lean on each other through this tough time.

Just because you miscarry once doesn’t mean you’ll miscarry again. It can sometimes be more healing to seek couples therapy to talk about the grief to another person.

I want you to understand it was not your fault. And especially knowing that you tried so hard to get pregnant. It was out of your power and it unfortunately does happen.

Also, I recommend going on a little trip with just you and your SO once you have some time to grieve and process. It is your love for one another that made it possible to get pregnant and will make it possible to get pregnant again in the future.

We too had fertility issues and with the help of doctors were successful. It was a long and tough road but it is the most amazing feeling. I really truly hope you get to experience this as well. I really wish you luck and we’re always here for you if you need to get something off your chest to vent.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m so sorry 🙁

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011 - Boy #1 12/2015, boy #2 02/2018

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Jooniebug:  I am so sorry. Life can be so unfair sometimes. Hugs to you.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I’m so, so very sorry for your loss. The same happened to me with my first pregnancy at just over 10 weeks. I was also devastated and quite depressed for about a month. I just felt that it was so unfair. My only advice is to take time to mourn and move on to trying again when you’re ready. After my missed MC, I was pregnant again 4 months later and now have a 2 year old son. 

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