(Closed) Devestated…No wedding now..jp only…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Just try to stay calm and go with the flow. Talk to your vendors and see if you can reschedule for a later date- perhaps after your baby and everythin is settled you can do up the wedding you wanted and for now do the Justice of the Peace

Post # 4
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328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Don’t stress! be happy!! Congrats, you’re having a baby! That will be a wonderful new addition to your family!

Don’t worry about the dress, the venue…those are all small matters compared to the wonderful life you will be bringing into the world. I’m not sure if I follow your timeline….if your wedding is Oct 1, you would have already given birth by your wedding???

 

Post # 6
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14495 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

You can do both kinds of wedding, We Did!  We got legally married one year to the day before we got to have our wedding.  Lots of couples do this for a myriad of reasons.  If you look at it this way, you get to have the best of both world and some extra time to save for it.

Post # 7
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1230 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

congratulations on the baby!  i agree with tksjewlery, enjoy every minute of being pregnant and save up a lil money!

Post # 9
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328 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

how you would feel about having a small, private ceremony where you two can get married, and then have the “wedding” or “party” later???

Post # 10
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14495 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@JoshsTammy: It is more than ok to want him with you, be crushed over the wedding and be happy for the baby all at the same time.  It is a swirl of emotions, and even harder when your shoulder isn’t there for you to lean on.  Take a breath, buy something awesome for the baby (like a photo frame to hold a pic of all of you together) and keep plugging away at the immigration.   I promise that the clouds will clear and it will all be ok in the end.  Sending you giant (((HUGS)))

 

 

Post # 11
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870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

When’s the ball park that immigration will be ready? Is there any way you can move the date up? This happend in my family as well–couple got engaged set the wedding a year away and then found out they were expecting. So they moved the whole thing up about 6 months. If immigration will be done in like 4 months maybe you can plan an intimate wedding for 5 months out?

Post # 13
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2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

You know what, I can’t pretend to understand how frustrating it must be that your immigration issues are so tied in with your wedding date but…..congratulations…..in 8 ish months you’re going to have a little baby with you and you’ll be so delighted with him/her that these problems will seem less important. 

You’re going to be a mum, and I’m sure an amazing one 🙂

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