(Closed) DH and I haven't had sex in months…

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
9114 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

First off, it is normal to wonder about other men in bed. Wondering vs acting are two different things. You can wander mentally, but if you act on it, that’s another story.

Why don’t you surprise your husband? When he is feeling better, just pounce him and be like, “I am woman, hear me roar.” I know my husband gets all sort of giddy when I do things like that for him. I don’t have to be “in the mood” to enjoy sex with him. I love being intimate with him, close to him, and so whether or not I’m in the mood, we’ll have sex.


If you NEED it, then take it. Do something saucy or sexy or generally naughty. Have him come home to find you naked on the couch or something.

Post # 4
1686 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

At this point, I don’t think being exhausted should stop you.  Even if it’s a quick 5 minute round, it needs to happen.  Make it happen!  Once he’s not sick and in bed you need to just initiate and don’t take no for an answer!  Even if you’re tired you’ll wake up rather quickly!

Post # 5
72 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

You have been by his side through all of this, but once he is better just pounce! He will love because it is a stress reliever and it will make him and you feel a lot better

Post # 6
6221 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

Go read 50 shades of grey in the bathtub hahahaha, and hopefully in 4 days he’ll feel well enough

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