- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2012
So bees. Im a girl who likes to stay bottled up. Wont beat around the bush on that one. I give information that needs to be given. But generally when im stressing out I dont let on too much. And i try to hide it.
With the wedding I have been sharing with Darling Husband a little more, and he has been trying to keep my a little calmer.
Well. Today, he and I were talking about things. and my goal for wedding saving is $1500.00 by the end of the year. So about a month and a half. We were discussing it and we got on the topic of how he is pretty “loose” with his money. His phrase is “ya cant take it with you”
Now, I am a saver. always have been. I do have fun and splurge a little but generally I have always had school loans to deal with and responsibilities. SO, generally when we go out Darling Husband pays and what not.
About 6 months ago Darling Husband got a new car. and he didnt have enough for the downpayment so i put it on my credit card. Which was fine. and I still pay on it, and its fine, like I said , he pays for things, and IM ok with paying for his car downpayment.
BUT – we just got into how much it really was and now he feels really bad. This is why I dont show that im stressed. bc now instead of it just being me, its both of us. BUT – is there any way that I can help him be a little more at ease. I just feel so bad for stressing him out.
Im not a nagger, so i dont constintly remind him of anything or keep proding that i paid for this or that. And also, I am paying for the wedding. So, needless to say, thats why else I am a little on the edge. lol.
but, are there any other brides out there that dont like to have both of you stressing. My stress is enough for the both of us. lol.
This seems silly, but i dunno. I like to have at least 1 high spirited person in the household. haha