(Closed) DH’s Childhood Chum…and the wedding

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Congrats on getting married!!

Sounds like you’ll have quite the story to laugh about later. I’m sure it’s going to be a sore subject for awhile, but it seems like a larger disaster was avoided. It’s awesome that your photographer and vendor and everyone was so understanding and helped to keep his crazy toned down!

He sounds insane, and thankfully you don’t have to deal with him anymore!

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper

I remember seeing your post and couldn’t believe what a tool he is. I’m glad you were able to find some piece of mind before the big day.

Post # 5
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Busy Beekeeper

I remember seeing your post and couldn’t believe what a tool he is. I’m glad you were able to find some piece of mind before the big day.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

WOOOT WOOT .. I’m so glad he didn’t ruin everything … what a PIG …. thank god your NOW HUBS sees the light….

oh and have you posted pics yet???

 

 

 

 

 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

Def agree on this being something you guys can laugh about later in life.  Right now?  It’s really up to your Fiance to cut him out of his life.

I don’t know this guy and only know a tiny teeny bit from here but I will tell you, he sounds very reminicent of friends I’ve had while I was a big Rave partier.  I mean for a while that was my life and the lifestyle of all my friends.  And this was the kind of thing that happened frequently.  Meaning that this guy MAY change eventually, and in most likeliness, will at some point but right now, his lifestyle and ‘wave length” is in no way shape and form near you. Whether he is an alcholic or does drugs is really besides the point.

So this is really only something your Fiance can do.  Maybe limit him to basic info on Facebook, curt replies to phone calls, no inviting him to any kind of function, etc.

Kind of like a relationship within a couple,  set him free, if he comes back to you, (clean/sober/mature) then you were meant to be, if he doesn’t? Then this is the end of that relationship.

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