- 9 years ago
- Wedding: May 2010
So over three years ago, my husband broke up with his at-the time-gf. She was controling and manipulative and very likely either bipolar or borderline personality disorder. After DH broke up with her, she broke into his apartment while he was at his parents, and left crazy mean notes all over the place. She took photos of him and stabbed through his face with steak knives! Seriously, crazy!
DH and I had dated before he met her, but I was young and stupid and broke up with him. So once he left her, we started dating again. She stalked him and I both, in person and online for months. She created fake “friends” to get DH to talk to her on im, etc… Initally he would respond, but then stopped a few months after we got together.
We haven’t heard much from her in the last year or so, a random email to DH or a card at the holidays, all of which is cryptic and semi-anonymous. But this weekend we get to my inlaws and she sent him a package!!! In it were a pair of superman boy pajamas and a letter. The letter read:
Hey there. word came down the line that congratulations are in order for the bith of a boy. I’m sorry to say the talk is that he doesn’t look like you, sorry to hear that. I was going though boxes in the basement and came across some superman stuff we had been puchasing for when we had our own kids. (meaning her and my DH). Figured you could use this outfit with your infatuation with anything superman. my son is being raised to respect and look up to the common day hero over comic book heros. No cartoon idolizing in my house for him. By the way happy belated 31st birthday to you. hope it came to you in goo health. if you ever want to chat, my email is XXXX. I’m rarely on, but feel free to drop me a line. J.
We obviously are not going to respond at all, but who does that???