(Closed) Diamond Shopping

posted 8 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

That’s garbage! Now you definitely know which stores you WON’T buy your ring from! I can’t believe they have been treating you like this. Were they family-run jewelry stores? That’s where we picked out my ring from, and they were very helpful and willing to answer any of my questions and show me whatever I wanted to see.

I noticed at some of the mall chain stores that they weren’t very willng to talk diamond quality with me. Especially one store, where their one specialty line of diamonds are sold at one set price per “size”, whether the diamond is .94 or 1.15. Now don’t try to tell me there wouldn’t be a difference in price for those at any other jewelry store!

I’d just march into a store and tell them you want to find a quality diamond and would like to see some options in your price range. If they don’t pull out a couple and help explain their differences to you, I’d stay on the search for a helpful jeweler. Keep in mind that you’ll be bringing in your ring for “checkups” to the store you buy your ring from, so you want that to be an enjoyable experience!

Post # 4
592 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

It was a joint purchase between my fiance and myself when we picked my engagement ring. We made that clear to the people we dealt with and I let them know that I knew the budget and they could (and would) deal with me.

If the jewelers are trying to exclude you or won’t show you diamonds – go elsewhere!

I don’t know if this made a difference, but I did a lot of the talking and I was upfront with them about being invovled in the purchase. They may be trying to be polite thinking that your bf is purchasing the ring and they will be discussing finances (and diamonds) with him. A few jewelers asked me if I knew the budget and if I was going to be involved in picking the diamonds and we told them yes. The jeweler we ended up using met with me and heard what I wanted before my fiance even set foot in the store.

Maybe post where you are so you can get some references for jewelers in your area that will be happy to work with you.

Post # 5
87 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

If you want to see some loose diamonds, tell them “I would like to see some loose diamonds in (1.0 carat, 1.5 carat- whatever you want) sizes”.


By the time I walked into a jewelry store, with or without my fiance, I knew all about the 4 C’s and knew what I was talking about, so they took me seriously. Don’t bother with the stores in the mall- they usually don’t know anything about diamonds and don’t even have GIA graded diamonds. Try going to stores where they have just the ring settings so you can easily plop in loose diamonds.

Good Luck!

Post # 6
3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

We went to Jared & a local jewely store and they both told US all the specs and prices. We also both picked out my center stone

Post # 7
5147 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Have you considered online jewelers?

I never thought a diamond was something that could be purchased online until I found PriceScope.

So far, I’ve dealt with 3 online jewelers (Good Old Gold, Eternity Diamonds, and ID Jewelry), all have been fabulous to work with!  And I got a better quality diamond and ring for cheaper than I would have at a brick & mortar jewelry store.

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