(Closed) Did anyone arrange their own hen/batchelorette party

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
1652 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I did!

Post # 4
960 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I think going to that extreme of planning the exact timing is a bit much tell your MoH that you’d like to do a hotel hang out with the disco club and spa in the monring and let her know the package deal you thought would be fun.

Then you can have it more what you want, but still let your MoH arrange it and you wont take it all over 🙂


— On a side note it may or may not turn out that way but if things get to a degree you don’t want, you always have the option of leaving. I gave my MoH (sister) my idea of a casual dinner and hotel slumber party idea, and she said she has her own ideas but I’ve warned her no strippers and I do not do clubs and if those happen, I will leave.

Post # 5
3152 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

@ChocolateLime:  I think this detail may be a bit much but just make sure she knows what you want & to take control before the other girl does. 

Post # 6
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I wouldn’t go as far as making a timeline but I’d give my Maid/Matron of Honor suggestions and let her know what was off limits.

Post # 8
3152 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2018

I wouldn’t ‘dictate’ anything. Have a conversation that you want to go to dinner & out dancing & maybe some spa stuff the next day. Then let it go. 

Post # 9
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Definitely communicated what you want for your party. I made what I wanted clear (dinner, drinks, hotel) without giving too many specifics. This way whoever is planning can just what within the parameters you specify for them.

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