(Closed) Did anyone cut out sex before getting married?

posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 17
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

It makes no sense at all to me. You can’t turn back time or re-invent yourselves as virgins so it all comes across as an entirely pointless deprivation that is likely to cause stress at what is already a potentially stressful time! It may work just fine for people who aren’t very interested in sex but for anyone who has a healthy sex life it’s needless denial.

Post # 18
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

We abstained for the month before the wedding, partially because I had to go off BC so we could TTC on the wedding night.

It was great! We went at it like wild animals on the wedding night… Twice!

Post # 19
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1344 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Vine Street Church

Um… no.

Post # 20
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402 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

we have cut out sex. .. we started 10 months befor. .. that was befor he had asked me the big question. .. so i knew he would get down on one knee soon after he asked if we could stop/ wait. it means alot to him so i can wait.

Post # 21
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Sugar bee

@Birdiebaby4:  someone I know did this. They lived together but didn’t have sex for two months prior to the wedding an she said it made them a lot closer. I personally would never do that

Post # 22
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

not intentionally.  Things are just stressful!

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