Post # 17
It makes no sense at all to me. You can’t turn back time or re-invent yourselves as virgins so it all comes across as an entirely pointless deprivation that is likely to cause stress at what is already a potentially stressful time! It may work just fine for people who aren’t very interested in sex but for anyone who has a healthy sex life it’s needless denial.
Post # 18
We abstained for the month before the wedding, partially because I had to go off BC so we could TTC on the wedding night.
It was great! We went at it like wild animals on the wedding night… Twice!
Post # 20
we have cut out sex. .. we started 10 months befor. .. that was befor he had asked me the big question. .. so i knew he would get down on one knee soon after he asked if we could stop/ wait. it means alot to him so i can wait.
Post # 21
@Birdiebaby4: someone I know did this. They lived together but didn’t have sex for two months prior to the wedding an she said it made them a lot closer. I personally would never do that
Post # 22
not intentionally. Things are just stressful!