(Closed) did anyone else ever feel like the wedding, etc. was never going to happen??

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2966 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Stace126:  Wow. That is tough, it sounds like you’ve had blow after blow….and I am really sorry to hear that! Bad things happen to good people and unfortunately there is little you can do but hope and pray for the better.

I’m sorry that I don’t have a success story for encouragement because my battle right now is internal and am finding a hard time motivating myself to believe that things will get better….but they will, so they say :).

As long as you have health and a strong work ethic, everything will be fine! The economy is slowly getting better so I suggest focusing on the basics like a job right now, and leave the rest for later. As long as you work on your foundation, the other details should work themselves out. 

Good luck and keep your chin up, dear. I will be sending good thoughts your way.


Post # 4
2669 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Stace126: (((((HUGS))))) and keep your chin up! The gremlins whispering the “never” and “hopeless” phrases are lying. You are right. Together, you guys will make it happen and work it out. Job hunting is tough, but don’t let it get you down. You found a great one before, and you’ll find one again. WHEN you find a house or apartment, always remember that Ikea, Goodwill, and Craigslist can help you with your starter furniture. 

Your feelings matter, and if you need to then give yourself some time and space to be frustrated or panicky and/or have an ugly cry. Don’t let it bottle up inside of you. Then you can shake it off, and move forward 🙂

 @Mimoza:  I am also sending you soothing and strengthening vibes for your internal fight. 


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