(Closed) did anyone else stop having sex right before the wedding??

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I think the last time was the Tuesday before our wedding (which was on a Friday). Yeah, that didn’t last long. However, the wedding night was still awesome, so I wouldn’t worry about holding off just to build up anticipation if you’re going absolutely nuts.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

We did this too–4 months before the wedding actually! Although most of that time was spent in long-distance, so that made it easier to stick to it. And our wedding night was the first time without a condom too! There are several other threads about this as well that you could find and read. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I brought it up to my Fiance and heard a resounding “HELLS NO”, so we’re not going to hold off at all in my house!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@neohippie88:HAHA. Well. To be honest I wasn’t trying TOO hard to convince him. Sex is a great stress reliever and we all know weddings are stressful!

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We abstained for the month right before the wedding. It wasn’t easy (and once or twice we can really close to breaking, but mutually decided in the heat of the moment that at that moment it was okay if it wasn’t penetration). Although the last week was actually the easiest for us, since we were both hardcore distracted with wedding stuff, and my mother was staying with us (and I’m not the quietest). 

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

Yeah – the night before.  Had no idea Darling Husband was going to spring a quickie, last minute, unplanned JOP wedding on me the next day!!! 

Post # 13
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think this is awesome. I plan on doing it myself- if I can make it ;).

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper

Nope. I didn’t wait, didn’t abstain. There was no point for us. Not that it doesn’t mean something to other people, but no. I just don’t see the point unless you’re waiting to lose your virginity or something.

Post # 15
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Newbee

My SO is thinking about the same thing, originally it was 6 months but don’t know if she was completely serious, she’s now thinking the same 1 month period.

Not sure how it would work, there’s the legal wedding and the destination “wedding” (Which is the more real one to us) on top of that things are pretty quiet when we usually go on vacation, guess the energy is spent on other things

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Fiance and I are thinking about it – we were abstinent for a year and a half when we first started dating (lots of fooling around, though), but have had pretty regular sex since then. I’m nervous about it! Originally we were going to do the whole engagement, but that fell by the wayside…. One month sounds like a reasonable amount of time, though! How did it end up for you, by the way, since it’s now three months later? How did you make it through??? I’m thinking lots of…. well, you know. 

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