(Closed) Did anyone feel obligated to include someone in wedding party?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I am going through the same thing right now with my best friend and Maid/Matron of Honor. I put in all the effort and it truly sucks. I moved to Dallas, an hour away from our small town, a year and a half ago but my family still lives there so I visit often. I always try to see her when I go but she is always busy. She is in a bad relationship where her boyfriend abuses her and it hurts to see her like that. But she hardly responds to messages I send and when she does, I feel like it’s only when I have been persistent. She, like your friend, was expecting to being in my wedding but she hasnt done anything with the other girls and I. I tried to contact her when everyone was buying the dresses and she didnt respond for a week later so I had to go ahead and buy hers to ensure we could still get it. Now she just found out she is pregnant so I think it is only going to be worse. I dont know what to do in my situation either but I just wanted to let you know I am in a similar situation and it sucks. Especially because being in a wedding party is partly about being a reliable friend.

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