- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2015
hey bees –
our wedding is june 20, and we’ve got a little dilemma.
we have recently moved back to my hometown (where we’re getting married) and we met a couple through some other friends at a dinner party. since then, we’ve hung out with them 3 or 4 times, gone hiking, dinner at their place etc, and we love them – think they’re great and we get along so well! so, we’d like to have them at our wedding. they are totally understanding that they aren’t invited, because we only met them a month or two ago and they’re super laid back and not at all offended. but would it be bad to invite them, even though we aren’t inviting some of the mutual friends who we met them through? i think a simple ‘hey we’d love to have you at the wedding, i hope you’re not offended by the late notice :)’ would be more than fine. they’re very chill and i can’t imagine they’d be upset as they know we planned the whole wedding prior to meeting them.
BUT – at that original dinner party there were 4 couples and only one couple is currently invited (the hosts). the other 2 couples are people that i knew as a child, have sort of reconnected with and are friendly with, but we’ve never hung out one on one, or as 2 couples – but we have with this new couple.
so would it cause issues to invite the people we’ve known the shortest amount of time, but feel much closer to?
ahhhh – apologies, i realise this is a convoluted post!
did anyone add someone at the last minute? how’d it work out?