Did anyone’s FI NOT like their boudoir pics?

posted 8 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
1980 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

This makes me think of the episode of My Fair Brady where he FLIPS out on her about her boudoir pics. That. Was. Ridic. But yeah, I don’t think any normal Fiance would freak out! Especially if it was a female photographer.

Post # 4
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

My hubby thought it was hot!  My photographer was female though.

Post # 5
5 posts
  • Wedding: January 2011

Mine would probably think it was weird…then it would be awkward for him to have this book that he’d have to keep hidden from everyone who came near…lol

Post # 8
144 posts
Blushing bee

My Fiance wouldn’t be a big fan of it either…female photog or not, he wouldn’t like the idea of those pictures of me out there.  And I don’t blame him.  I am sure the photog would never do anything with them but you never know…

Post # 9
1426 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

It’s definitely not our style.  We’re really private people, so I think if I gave my Fi a book like that he would think it was really strange.  Also, what does he do with it then, put it away somewhere and take it out to look at when I’m not around?  I think he would be more embarrassed and uncomfortable to get a gift like that than anything else.

That’s not to say other people shouldn’t do it- if it’s your thing then go for it.  But it’s not for everyone.

Post # 10
2342 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I did it and I know my fi would love it!  I had a female photog and it was a lot of fun!  Don’t do it though if you think your Fi won’t like it, after all it is for him. 

Post # 11
3526 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

When I’d first heard of boudoir pics I thought about it. I asked Fiance what he thought about it and he said he’ll rather be the one behind the camera taking the pictures!


Post # 12
325 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

  Yeah, my Fiance wouldnt “not” like the but would def. think that they are weird. Hes very personal about that kinda stuff and would like to keep that side of me behind closed doors and not printed.

  As for me…I think the idea is sexy and would do it. But I just dont think he would care for it.

Post # 13
520 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I showed some boudoir pics to my Fiance and he thought “what’s the point of them?  It’s not like you can show it to your buddies” — so I decided not to get them done.

Post # 14
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I had them done a few years back by a female photog friend. He loved them. July/Augish I’m having new ones made(I’ve lost a TON of weight) and giving it to him the day of our ceremony in an album.

Post # 15
2634 posts
Sugar bee

I asked my Fiance if he’d be ok with it and he said yes.  I don’t know if I’ll be doing them due to budget constraints, but I’d really like to!  I’d only use a female photog though – otherwise I’D feel weird.

Post # 16
1189 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

My husband thought the concept was a little strange when I told him some brides do boudoir pics.  Just not for us!

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