(Closed) Did anyone’s FI NOT like their boudoir pics?

posted 11 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 46
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

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merrymargaret :  try to refrain from digging up seven year old threads just so you can try to sexually shame posters.

Pretty sure you’re too late to save these ladies from showing their midriff. 

Post # 47
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

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MissEloise :  I swear she just looks up all vaguely sex themed questions on here no matter how.old just to post her judgemental views 

Post # 48
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Helper bee

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Innerdonught : My thoughts exactly. And you know it’s just a matter of time before TB rolls in here to echo her sanctimonious sentiments. 

Surely it can’t be good for your long-term health to go out of your way to get fired up about everything all the time. 

Post # 49
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

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merrymargaret :   And how! We broke up a year ago, and I just last week had to decide what to do with that album. I’m keeping it for a while because frankly, I look awesome.

And Miss Eloise, you’re correct. Totally uncalled for “advice”.

Post # 51
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2022 - Maui

Sorry it didnt work out but i say keep the book if it makes you feel good:)

Post # 52
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Worker bee

I’d love the idea, but I’d do it for myself because it’d be a lot of fun, not for my partner. I most probably wouldn’t do it though, as I…Don’t have the body for it. I’ve always wanted to do a glam, vintange retro shoot though, 40s is my aesthetic. 

As for the “your descendants will be traumatised forever” theory…My Mother in her youth was to die for, she was gorgeous. I’m not talking tacky nudes or anything, but if I found artistically done ones, I’d be all “WOO, go Mum!!!!” But she’s as straight laced conservative as you’d come, so that’d never happen. I embarrass her enough as it is telling everyone she could have been a glam model in the 60s. I love photos of my parents back in the day, in their “courtship” days. It always makes her happy though, my grandparents were emotionally abusive and she grew up not believing she was pretty, so my always fangirling over her gives her the giggles. But hell yeah if I found something like that, I’d be proud as punch. And my nanna was gorgeous too, in the 1940s. I only wish the women in my life had been a little wild.  

Post # 53
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Helper bee

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Post # 54
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Helper bee

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MissHelen :  Toss he pics. why keep something from a bad situation?

Post # 56
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Helper bee

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merrymargaret : What is wrong with you? The bride didn’t take the photos for your viewing pleasure, she took them for her partner. Either this bride was showing them to you because she thinks you are a trusted friend or you went out of your way (as you’re known to do) to find these photos even though you’ve already expressed that they aren’t something you care for. Either way, shame on you for saying something so cruel about someone who was likely going way outside her comfort zone to try something new. 

 

 

Post # 57
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Buzzing bee

Besides pleasing a SO is there any other reason on earth to pay for “bedroom shots”?

I can think of a zillion things to spend that money on that are SO MUCH MORE FUN than a picture of me lying around in skimpy (or less) clothes.

Post # 60
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

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merrymargaret :  modesty? Surely if her family weren’t being nosey then they wouldn’t find them? I’m sure the book isn’t sprawled out on the kitchen table. What happened to respecting someone’s privacy?

Post # 61
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Bumble bee

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ann.reid.9277 :  First off, you say “pleasing a SO” like it’s a bad thing? I enjoy giving my SO boners so if there’s something I can do that turns him on, then sign me up!
Secondly, if I had the confidence to wear lingerie in front of a photographer, I’d love some sexy photos of myself. I look hot in some nice lacy undies! As it stands, I’m not confident enough to wear so little in front of someone I don’t know, so I’ll be gifting my fiance with a camera for our wedding and we can take tasteful (and not so tasteful) boudior photos together. I would love some pictures of me to remind myself that I am one sexy lady because sometimes I have trouble remembering that.

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