- 6 years ago
- Wedding: November 1999
We got engaged 2 months ago and since then things appear to have hit the fan. We have started fighting a ridiculous amount, almost daily. Neither of us is feeling like the other is really listening. I feel like he is ignoring my concerns and basically doesnt care. He feels that my issues are uncalled for, that i am depressed and need to work on myself. I am having issues with the fact that i am certain his family doesn’t like me even after all the efforts i have made to be part of their group. I know i have jealousy issues because i feel like Fiance and I are the “forgotten couple” in his family and it hurts my feelings. I feel disrespected and its lead to anger.
Anyways, i’ve decided to seek my own personal counselling to help with my anger issues, jeaously and self esteem, but i know we will also need couples counsellng to deal with our horrible communication.
Bascially i am just looking to see of anyone’s relationship seriously made a change for the better after counselling. I do love him, but i feel like we are losing “us”.