(Closed) Did getting engaged change your sex life?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
108 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

i wish… ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Edited to say.. ALthough to much of something can be a bad thing.. 

Post # 4
929 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

ha ha – sounds like a good problem to have!! We’ve been engaged about 2 1/2 months now – the weekend we got engaged was INSANITY – i think from Friday night to midday SUnday we did it about 8 or 9 times!!  I needed a bit of recovery time after that … there was a bit of a surge for probably a month, but now we’re back into old routines…usually 2-4 times a week depending on who’s working when and how tired we are. 

Post # 5
3004 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

I wish it went up more. Unfortunately we moved in with my FFIL/FMIL and it really did a number on our sex drive. We are planning on going on a road trip with his parents next week to check out a potential grad college but in order to save money it looks like we will be sharing a room with them. (so no loud sex for me).

Post # 6
150 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m sad to say since we got engaged the number went significantly down.  My friends keep telling me it’s because the wedding date is getting so close it’s like being in high school again worrying about a pregnancy scare. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
13096 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Didn’t really change ours but it also probably didn’t help that we were long-distance at the time.  So we were already making good use of the times we did get to see each other (every 6 weeks or so).  Didn’t need gettting engaged to start that up!

Post # 8
893 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Nope mind didn’t change at all and I wish it did.

Post # 9
582 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Ours got a little more passionate, and that happened again for the wedding. It wasn’t a big difference in how often really though. Most of the difference was on my end. I think without meaning to I was holding something back and waiting for that commitment.

Post # 10
1057 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

hahaha  I wish! We’ve been engaged for 17 months now and I’d say things slowed down more than anything. I guess he felt like he’s already got me, he doesn’t have to “perform” like he used to. We used to have sex a few times a week and now it’s about once a week.

Post # 11
542 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

Ours is probably about the same, but we are both pretty active sexually (7 or 8 times a week on average…sorry TMI!) but it did go up a little bit around the time we got engaged for a few days, just with us “celebrating” our engagement. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 12
3 posts
  • Wedding: April 2012

OMG….i wish i had your problem. My Mr. is having anxiety issues about getting me pregnant, so our sex life is just a “?”

Post # 13
2829 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

haha I wish, when we got engaged we were wrangling an 18month old, so yeah, didn’t have a whole lot of time/energy for celebratory nookie, though it would’ve been nice!

Post # 14
786 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Haha wish I had your problem as well! Our’s hasn’t changed, if anything maybe a little less than normal because a lot of my free time I am wedding planning with the girls and working out now…he mentioned how this site distracts me…maybe it is time for an intervention! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 15
95 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Mine definitely has changed! It has only been a month since we got engaged but my Fiance can’t keep his hands off of me. We have lived together for 2 years and usually had sex once a week but ever since we have been engaged I swear it is probably every day. I don’t know if he takes our relationship more seriously, or thinks I am sexier? Heck, it might be all the flash in the ring! Lol who knows! But I’m not complaining! Definitely one of the best times of my life (being engaged) despite all of the other chaos in life!

Post # 16
1724 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 1998

I know this is a resurrected thread, but for humor’s sake, I’d like to say that OP probably needed vaginal reinforcement with all of that action going on. ^_~

But to be honest, I didn’t see a change in our sex life once we got engaged…or when we got married. It did get slightly more frequent when I started taking the birth control pill, but that’s all.

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