posted 7 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 4
3771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

I have had two vaginal births and actually felt tighter after #2. I had an episiotomy and still tore with #1 so I had a lot of stitches. After that healed things didn’t look that much different.

Sex has defiantely still been good (obviously since #3 is on the way). I have talked to Darling Husband about this and he says that there isn’t much difference at all and he really has no filter so he would tell me the truth:)

Post # 5
275 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I had a vaginal delivery. Two years later, I would say it is all still the same down there. It took a lot of recovery time, lets say 4 to 6  months for me to feel back to normal. I had stitches, and they take forever to heal. Plus, it didn’t feel awesome again for awhile, that is why I say 4 to 6 months.

Post # 6
588 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2007 - Radisson Hotel

Well, I had a c-sec after pushing for two hours failed me. Afterwards I had a lot of problems from pushing due to how she was positioned (mostly pelvic floor issues, and rectum changes) and because she was stuck, but sex is INCREDIBLY better now. I have a little bit of muscle loss from pushing, but it’s not blown out or anything. 🙂 Something happened from pushing, though, as I can now orgasm within two minutes of sex. while before I couldn’t finish until like, 20 minutes WITH help.

Post # 7
2808 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I can’t wait to read the responses to this thread. Darling Husband and I just started TTC and this is a concern of mine.

Post # 9
991 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

within 6 months I was normal.

Post # 10
3621 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I am not pregant yet, but this has constantly crossed my mind. I look forward to more comments! Thanks for the topic!

Post # 11
552 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I had a vaginal delivery. My vagina is certainly not as tight as she once was and she also had some tears on the inside, leaving her more sensitive. However, our sex life is still great. I don’t feel any different and still orgasm as much as I ever did (which is luckily, 2-4 times/session). My husband says he notices a difference, but still finds me sexy (if not sexier) and enjoys sex. The tears had left me more sensitive to rougher sex/prolonged sex. I can’t go for as long as I once did because of the tears. It starts to feel a little raw. My husband is intact and sometimes says his foreskin doesn’t get pulled back as much during sex because my vagina is looser. This sometimes leaves him feeling a little raw if we go for too long. 

Overall, we are still rocking the sex life!

Post # 12
1301 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Very interested in this… 

Post # 14
2808 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Juliepants:  I flagged for you so hopefully someone can step in and fix this 🙂

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