Did he cheat & what do I do? (LONG)

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 122
315 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Hey Bee, what a tough situation! You’ve been dealing with it all with such grace. I think it’s great that you are going to counseling too to help you deal with everything.

stay strong and look after yourself. None of us say for sure what we would do in your shoes or will know what’s right for you. Just know there is a supportive community here rooting for you, whichever path you take. I can understand not wanting to give up on a marriage too quickly, and I know it easy for strangers to just tell you to get divorced but it’s always a complicated decision. So do what is right for you guys. I hope that honest, open communication can help you come to terms with your DH’s betrayal while he works on himself to free himself of this addiction amd works to gain your trust again. I know from a friend’s experience how truly damaging a porn addiction can be. 

Big hug bee! And thanks for keeping us updated!!



Post # 123
93 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: February 2019

bewitched :  I agree with you, every couple has their own standards that they respect so that the other person feels comfortable- it’s a spectrum and some people are more leninent. There is a problem here in communication and expectations and it needs to be resolved for things to work. 

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