(Closed) Did I choose the wrong band? 30 days to exchange means time for a bee poll!

posted 4 years ago in Rings
  • poll: Which band do you like?
    Thin band- go back for it! : (157 votes)
    65 %
    Scalloped band- stick with it! : (62 votes)
    26 %
    If your fiancé REALLY loved you, he'd buy you both. ;) : (4 votes)
    2 %
    I know that last option was a joke, but anniversary present hey now! : (19 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 2
    1483 posts
    Bumble bee

    Eek, that’s a difficult one…I think I like the pave matchy ring better. I can appreciate the workmanship and uniqueness of the scalloped one though too. I think I vote pave, then down the road (anniversary), get the scalloped band if you still want it.


    ETA you might not lIke the spinning of the half eternity ring. IMO, they’re a pita. 

    • This reply was modified 4 years, 3 months ago by  Slick.
    Post # 3
    2258 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Okay, at first I was all loving the first one thinking the second didn’t match as well. But then when I scrolled down and saw the side by side–I am all about the second, scalloped one. I love it!! It actually matches well and looks beautiful next to your e-ring. 

    Post # 4
    3395 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2006

    I think they’re both super pretty! You can’t go wrong. But I personally like the first one a lot more with your ring. The scallop would be pretty as a stack with the other, but alone I like the thin first band best! 

    Post # 6
    1671 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    waterbaby:  I like the matching ring better but… They both look great! I know a girl who has a very similar set actually… She has 2 bands… One like the first and the other like the second! How about that? Is it impossible to get both?

    If you could get one as an anniversary present, I’d go with the pricier one now and the other later. (My husband let slip that he thinks early anniversary bands are silly… So I chose a blingier wedding band. I’m glad I did! I love my blingy band.)

    Post # 7
    800 posts
    Busy bee

    I love the thin band, personally. Both are beautiful but I feel the first band works best with your engagement ring. Best of luck on a tough choice!

    Post # 8
    1483 posts
    Bumble bee

    waterbaby:  I have a half eternity band that I spend all day turning back around…

    both are beautiful with your ering though!! Let us know what you choose. 

    Post # 10
    97 posts
    Worker bee

    This is super tough as they both look great. To be honest I was leaning to the matching pave band until you did the side by side pictures and then I got confused as to which I liked better. I can understand how it was a hard choice for you, its not my ring and I cant decide which I like better myself. I think with either one, you will end up with an amazing set, however the fact that you had ring regret so soon after makes me think you should probably go with the first on. Sorry I couldnt be more help.

    Post # 12
    6200 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

    I like the 2nd band better, but I’m a mismatched fan.  The first one looks very pretty too, it’s just that I prefer mismatched bands.

    Post # 13
    532 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I’m with Fizzy8 – is getting both a possibility?  Those would make a beautiful stack!

    Post # 14
    2103 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    Love your e-ring, by the way. I would choose the matching one. I am not always about matching, but in this cae, I would get two of the matching and wear one on each side… I am going to do that with my bands. They match each other but not my ring, haha! Also, it is hard to tell that the thicker band is not a 3/4 eternity. It probably won’t be noticeable unless it spins around. Both bands are pretty, though!

    Post # 15
    130 posts
    Blushing bee

    I really like the one you have.

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