(Closed) Did I do anything wrong & Where to go with this friendship from here on

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 16
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484 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

She’s the one being incredibly rude. If I went to a dinner party and the food wasn’t served until after 9, I would absolutely have left. How does she not see that?

Post # 18
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1565 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Definitely go ahead and send her a “happy birthday” text on Friday. I had what I thought was a falling out with a friend about a month before her birthday. Long story but basically she accused me of saying crazy stuff because my ex told her I’d bad mouthed her, she wouldn’t believe my denial or explanation that he was trying to cause trouble, and then she didn’t speak to me again for weeks. When her birthday rolled around, I wasn’t sure what the protocol was so I didn’t send her a birthday text during the day since I was at work and I was still trying to figure out how to approach it. 5:30 came around and I got a very angry text from her blasting me for not wishing her a happy birthday, and that our friendship was over. She unfriended me and blocked me on Facebool because of that! 

My point is, if you’re at all interested in maybe remaining friends with her, send a damn text. Just in case. 

Post # 19
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1565 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

That said, her reaction was nuts and you did nothing wrong. 

Post # 20
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3327 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

You totally did not do anything wrong. Just get that out of your mind.

I’d still text her happy bday, maybe suggest getting lunch or a drink sometime (if you want to), but I’d try to ignore her issues with the party and move on.

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