(Closed) Did I do someThing wrong??

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MrsNeutrino:

I agree with you.  If it is how you say and the irl is qualified while his bro isn’t but chances are he’ll still get the job becasue he has a penis, and that goes far in this world.  Tell your Fiance to not write anymore applications for his bro.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MrsNeutrino:first off, from what you just said, I hope the GIRL gets it because she’s worked harder for it.  (And if it were me, I’d have thrown a shit-fit for your Fiance writing the essay.  Sorry, but that’s lying and if it comes out, his bro is gonna get the boot in sooo many ways.)

Secondly, it sounds like your Fiance is wanting to live voraciously through his brother.  Not to mention, because HE did the essay, then that means if his bro doesn’t land it, it’s the same as your Fiance not getting it.  (hopefully that makes sense.)  

Personally, I think you and your Fiance need to sit down and talk about this.  What’s going to be next?  You complain about his brother for some reason (didn’t put the toilet seat down, for example) and he flips out because you dared complain about the brother?  

sorry you gotta deal with this, but I definitely think you’re in the right here.  good luck!

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MrsNeutrino: Nope, not crazy.  Hopefully things will calm down and it’ll all work itself out. 🙂  

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper

I sort of see his side of things. Though I think that him writing the essay for his brother is wrong, I see him taking it as you think this girl is better than your Fiance since he was the one who wrote the essay. So he thinks his intellegence is being attacked. I know that’s not what you were trying to do, but I can sort of see why he got angry.

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