Did I do the right thing?

posted 3 years ago in Military
Post # 31
4081 posts
Honey bee

Who cares if he fought for you, he’s cheated a billion times! Stay away! Respect yourself.

Post # 32
5018 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

I’m surprised you are even questioning this. 

Post # 33
11 posts
  • Wedding: January 2019

You 100000000000% did the right thing!!! You are still so young and thank goodness you escaped this being your life till death do you part!!!!

Post # 34
86 posts
Worker bee

You did the right thing. He is not your best friends. Best friends love and respect eachother. He will do this again if you take him back. By taking him back, you are sending the message that him cheating on you is ok. I know it is hard, but stay strong! You will never have happiness with this man.

Post # 35
506 posts
Busy bee

I second getting tested for STDs…sleeping with over 10 women who knows if he’s got something.

You won’t regret this I promise you. Do you want to spend the rest of your life checking his phone and FB to see if he’s been sleeping around? Block his number, social media, tell all your friends not to speak to him, and if he tries contacting you again get a restraining order. 

Post # 36
29 posts
  • Wedding: October 2018

You definitely did the right thing! No one deserves to be cheated on and you are destined for a man who will treat you like a princess. You got this Bee!

Post # 37
226 posts
Helper bee

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elizabmac123 :  is this real life?


He had sex with all of them.  Trust that! He isn’t your best friend. Guys in the military are notorious for that type of behavior. My husband has a buddy that legit had an entire separate relationship in his duty city while his girl was back in Missouri. He eventually dumps the chick in his duty city, and proposes to the old gf. They are now married. He’s one of my husband’s best friends and I still don’t like him. You have actual, repetitive proof he is mad shady, bragging to buddies, talking to other females. How can you possibly have any doubts? Is your self worth that low? Cut him off completely. Cold turkey. Change your number. 

Post # 38
978 posts
Busy bee

I’m an older bee and I think you did the right thing. When a man loves you, you will never have to wonder. The doubt is removed. If your gut instict is going off and you’re not a paranoid person…listen to it!

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