(Closed) did i make the right choice? second guessing my dress

posted 8 years ago in Dress
  • poll: what do you think?

    its beautiful keep it

    look one more time for lace and bling out dress.

  • Post # 17
    945 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    since you havent bought the dress, there’s no harm in trying other styles. What do you have to lose?

    Post # 18
    8679 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

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    @allyfally:  I thought she was asking opinions too. OP, you have posted pics of yourself in the dress in lots of threads so I thought for sure you were 100% in love with it. I wont say anything else bc I dont want to be considered rude but if you have some regrets this early in the game then maybe you should try on other silhouettes? I’m treading lightly here bc I dont want to be called rude.

    Post # 19
    8472 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

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    @HisNightOwl2014:  Oh and btw, you HAVE actually told me before that you prefer me in another dress I tried on. So if I’m rude because I like other dresses you’ve tried on, then you’re rude too. Just saying.

    Post # 20
    1041 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    I think you should try on more. Your wedding is over a year away! That is a long time to not be completely in love with your dress. You may find that one small change in the way the dress looks makes a huge difference in how you feel in it. Good luck!

    Post # 21
    13 posts

    I’d definitely go try on more.

    Post # 22
    1845 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Don’t want to sway you one way or the other, but if youre having regrets, it doesn’t thurs to try on a few more then come back to this one. If you still have the same emotional reaction, then stop looking.

    Post # 23
    2024 posts
    Buzzing bee

    i may not be the best person to give advice, but i’ve tried on many dresses too and while i’ve found ones that are really nice, there’s always something holding me back and i dont buy them. and in the morning, i realize that i’m glad i didn’t purchase it, but i take what i’ve learned and know what to look for next time. go with your gut, sleep on it awhile, picture your day, and go from there. you have soo much time before your wedding, so you have the time to really finalize your dream dress. good luck! (to both of us)

    Post # 24
    8414 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Since you haven’t purchased and you still have plenty of time to look then why not keep your options open and still look!

    If you are already second guessing before you order def a sign to keep looking!

    Post # 25
    8414 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    @HisNightOwl2014:  Have you tried on any sophia tolli dresses?

    They are pretty reasonably priced…a little more than mori lee but not as much as others. Her dresses have great detail with bling and lace!

    I suggest checking out a few of her dresses. I know you are around the Tampa area like me. I did try on a few of her dresses at a small shop here in Tampa called Emalinas

    Here is an example of one of her dresses


    I love this one too….lace and bling!


    Check them out!

    Post # 26
    23586 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2011

    @HisNightOwl2014:  NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!  πŸ™  I love you in this dress!  And I know you love it too, I just know it! No dress regret – you look FANTASTIC.  Seriously girl. You are rocking that dress.

    All that being said – if you’re not feeling it, we are all here to continue the dress hunt with you. πŸ™‚

    Post # 27
    7767 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    I think it fits you really well!

    Post # 29
    191 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I can be very indecisive too, but with the wedding dress, there was a sort of “supernatural” calm – a little voice literally told me “this is your dress.”  And lots of other signs pointed to that.

    It sounds like you have a strong and genuine connection to this dress but are still second guessing things.  Since you still have time, I’d say, as one sometimes indecisive person to another – keep looking! That dress isn’t going anywhere, so until you’ve exhausted all options, you will not be at peace.  Don’t force yourself into a committment that you aren’t ready to and don’t have to yet make.  Take all of the time you need – if you still keep coming back to that dress – which looks fantastic on you, then you will have your answer.

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