(Closed) Did I take this the wrong way? Or maybe even out of context?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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13014 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

If it makes you uncomfortable, you need to talk to your Fiance about it.  It sounds a little imappropriate/weird to me, but maybe it really is just his style?  Regardless, you should at least bring it up with Fiance and tell him you don’t like being kissed on the lips by your Future Brother-In-Law, or that you think this FB comments cross a line, and see if he could talk to his brother. 

If it were me, I would be as weirded out and concerned as you are, so no, I don’t think you’re overreacting.

Post # 5
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1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Maybe it’s his style, maybe he’s being a creep. Either way, if you’re uncomfortable, then it needs to be addressed. I’d talk to Fiance and tell him how you honestly feel. Let him know you don’t like it even if Future Brother-In-Law doesn’t mean anything by it. It needs to stop.

Post # 5
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5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

Uhm, gross. I would tell him to back off. I’m 100% sure my Fiance wouldn’t let his brother say and do things like that to me either. I don’t care if that’s his “style”.

Post # 7
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6998 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Oh my gosh did you watch modern family last night? The mom had the same problem with one of her husbands business associates – he kept kissing her on the mouth  – In all honesty I would talk to your Fiance and tell him how it makes you feel. Maybe he can have a chat with his brother and tell him to knock it off but if it continued it would just say something myself. kissing on the lips kinda grosses me out – obviously not with my husband but anyone else its just wierd. cheek is fine..but lips? just strange and creepy.

Post # 9
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2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I know in some cultures it’s the norm, but if it’s uncomfortable or inappropriate to you, then it’s inappropriate, period.  I would definitely find it uncomfortable and not only talk to Fiance about it, but also make sure to keep a physical distance between you and him at all times (like at least an arm’s length away).  Make it obvious if you have to so the point gets across.  Also, block him from being able to post on your facebook.  

Post # 10
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6248 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Awkwardd… I agree with the PPs, time for a chat with your Fiance.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@totheislnds:  Ha, that’s the first thing I thought of too – but it turns out that was just the guy’s way!! Maybe watch this episode before taking it further OP.

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