(Closed) Did she really just ask me that?!?!?!?…

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

There are plenty of women who start planning a wedding without an official proposal. Sometimes they get that proposal and sometimes they don’t. Perhaps she thought you were just jumping the gun a little, expecting one but didn’t have it yet.

As for the ring set you like, why not just tell him that that is the set you like. Tell hikm you were out picking his ring and fell in love with a set. Be honest about what happened. I can’t see him getting upset unless he already had a ring picked out and paid for. I think most men just want their women to like what they are wearing.

 

Post # 4
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2442 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m guessing since you had not shared your proprosal story with her she was just making sure there was actually a proposal story.  As a friend she was probably not accusing you of jumping the gun, just making sure that you weren’t. 

Post # 6
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Well since you were planning without him knowing to “surprise” him she probably just needed clarity on the situation. I wouldnt understand if one of my friends were trying to surprise their FI’s with a wedding, that seems a bit out there.

Post # 7
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726 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Geez, jumping the gun gets such a bad rep out here Tongue out. But I imagine maybe you never told her the proposal story when you thought you had, or she just forgot it. 

Post # 8
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2095 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@jumpthegun: lol…sorry..I’ll think of a different phrase next time

Post # 10
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7414 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Umm she’s pregnant. She has prego brain. They tend forget basic things. Don’t take offense.

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