(Closed) Did that really just happen?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Sorry that things are turning out like this, but you make it sound as if it was somewhat expected and you both know that you’ve got some things to work on. I hope that you find the answers you need and that you can get to a good place, whether that’s together or apart. Sending good thoughts your way.

Post # 4
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10851 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

((hugs)) It sounds like you two could do with couples counselling. I don’t think it’s healthy to be back and forth all the time sweetie. If/when you get married, are you just going to get seperated, divorced, and then remarried over and over? What happens if you have kids? The emotional rollercoaster must be exhausting!

Post # 5
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643 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@bakerella:

 

Totally agree, OP I am sorry you have to go through this, please both go see a professional, hugs!

Post # 6
Hostess
16213 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I’m so sorry this happened! Sounds like it may be for the better, at least for now. If you were expecting this to come, then maybe it’s not the best time to be planning a wedding. What’s really important is that you two find a way to be happy together. Once you’re stable, then reconsider getting married. You’ll both be looking forward to the wedding and spending the rest of your lives together, if that’s what’s in the cards.

Post # 7
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1036 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m so sorry this happened, but you don’t sound overly surprised about it.  Will your Boyfriend or Best Friend agree to talking to someone?  I think it would really help.  Hang in there, I am sure that it will all work out as it should.

Post # 8
Member
1398 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

So sorry 🙁  I agree with bakerella.  Couples counseling might be a good idea for you guys.  Good luck. 

Post # 9
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1486 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I am sorry! Sounds like you guys are going to take this time to improve your relationship, which is great!

Post # 10
Member
1189 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

If you are relieved and you knew it would happen, why would you want to get back together and get married still? Sometimes relationships do run their course and it’s not a dramatic end, it just one day is over. Also, expecting a screaming fight isn’t good either–you shouldn’t have to scream at or be screamed at in a relationship. I think maybe you should think about moving on and forward. Sorry if that’s not what you want to hear and I do wish you the very best, because you deserve it!

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