(Closed) Did this just happen

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Sugar bee

She clearly has no social skills.

(I’d have really had to ask how many ways there are to put cake on a plate.) Bet her hatin’ ass still ate it.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

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Waitingforit6 :  wow that’s wrong on so many levels! I’d just try to let it go. 🙁 

 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

I wish I had a good answer for you. I had one friend just tell me I wasn’t missing out on anything because her filet mignon wasn’t that good at my wedding. Apparently she felt compelled to offer this as a response when I told her we were going back to the inn we got married at (this past weekend) for our one year anniversary and I couldn’t wait to actually taste the dinner since I only got 5 bites the day of. Needless to say, the filet was excellent. She must be used to Steakums or maybe just hamburger. 🙂 This same friend said that the signature drinks weren’t strong enough to get her buzzed. :/ You’re in good company. I just blew it off.

PS I bet if you asked other guests they’d be telling you how awesome the bar was. Don’t ever pay mind to the malcontents, the ungrateful and the jealous! Their reality is, thankfully, neither yours nor the truth.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Can’t say I have, but klassy me would probably respond with “oh sorry, we should’ve also provided you with a slow dance partner too since you didn’t come with a date and are still probably single”

By The Way, I’m just assuming that she’s single for obvious reasons.

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

Wait and see. She’ll get married in a year or two and will copy everything you had, cake and all. Come back, bump this thread and say that leila called it!

Post # 8
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Busy bee

OMG no… just no. I agree with PPs – no social skills whatsoever. 

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee

Sounds like you may have caught her in a bad mood.  At least she was honest, LOL.  I would ask her more specific questions about the bar though. I’d want to know if they did not hold up their end of the bargain.  Im sorry your friend did not have good things to say, but you should let it go.  She obviously is a glass half-empty kinda gal.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

This would make me so angry! I was at a wedding a few months ago where I noticed things go wrong but I would NEVER tell the bride about it! Your friend sounds like a piece of work.

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

Wow. Wowowowow. B*tch has been watching too much Four Weddings.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017 - Poppy Ridge Golf Course

I had to laugh at the cake comment. Was she hoping for a square piece and got a triangle instead? I’d seriously like to know how someone finds fault with cake plating. Its cake, eat it! 

Post # 14
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Busy bee

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Waitingforit6 :  Other bees have give great advice/comment, but I’d add this: “well if the steak was better we’ll get overcharged because you’d eat more than 2 ;D”

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Yup, her comments were completely ridiculous.

But at the same time, I’m not a fan of fishing for compliments. It’s better just not to ask questions where the only acceptable response is some sort of praise of the asker.

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