(Closed) Did you and SO vote the same?

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Do you and SO vote the same
    Always- we think alike politically : (112 votes)
    53 %
    Sometimes- We have some similar viwes and some different : (78 votes)
    37 %
    Rarely-we love each other but hardly ever vote alike : (14 votes)
    7 %
    Never- we never vote alike and still have a lot in common? : (7 votes)
    3 %
  • Post # 3
    6009 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    I vote third party, while Darling Husband votes Democratic; but we’re both liberals, so it works just fine.  🙂

    ETA:  We often vote similarly in ballot measures, but differently on candidates.

    Post # 4
    6512 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We don’t agree on every single thing, but the vast majority of our political beliefs are very similar.  My husband even mentioned how much he loves my passion about social issues in his wedding vows 🙂


    Post # 5
    4038 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    We’re at about the same place on the political spectrum. I don’t know how couples in inter-political marriages do it! I don’t know that I could be in a relationship with someone so diametrically opposed to what I believe in and vice versa…I imagine a lot of tense dinners! Kudos to those who make it work!

    Post # 6
    3148 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2010

    we definitely have very similar views.

    Post # 7
    292 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    We voted the same. We tend to agree on most political and social issues.

    Post # 8
    133 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    Fiance is not quite as liberal as I am, but for the most part we vote the same. I’d like to say that it wouldn’t matter if we didn’t, and it’s not that I want to tell him how to vote, but on certain issues I cannot imagine marrying somone who did not feel the same as me. A little odd to think about considering religiously we are worlds apart and that works totally fine.

    Post # 9
    4150 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    We agree on most political issues with some slight differences when it comes to the social issues.  We always vote the same.

    Post # 10
    130 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We never vote the same because my husband refuses to vote.

    He says that it is because he doesn’t want to be called for jury duty. I have tried explaining that the two are not linked and it is his civic duty to vote. But it hasn’t made a difference so far.

    Post # 11
    4375 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think we both voted for the same candidate, but to be honest, I don’t know. for sure I grew up with parents who believed your vote was private, so it never occurred to me to ask Darling Husband who he voted for.

    Post # 12
    328 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    We’re both pretty interested in politics (him moreso than me), and luckily we agree on the issues. 

    Post # 13
    2385 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Fi and I have different views, but agree on a few key points that are important to us. 

    Post # 14
    217 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We normally agree on proposals, but not on elected officials… Go figure! 🙂

    Post # 15
    5800 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    Oh we do not agree at alllll about pretty much anything. 

    Post # 16
    7770 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    We pretty much agree on everything!

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