- 8 years ago
Been a blog stalker for awhile– finally ready to post because I need some help with answers! And I think this is a double post because I put the first one in Waiting so I apologize in advance!!!
Background: So we’ve talked about getting married next year the past couple months (I fell in love with the date 9/10/11 when he brought up getting married next year) but now he’s kinda shying away from details because he just wants everything to “happen as it happens”…basically, he’s being a guy =) I don’t mind not talking about specifics when it comes to the engagement/proposal because he wants to be all about that and keep it a surprise. But he wants to wait for the engagement to officially happen before we talk and nail down wedding details…The thing is he doesn’t realize how far in advance things tend to book up like venues/photogs/dates especially in NY …and while I’m okay with NOT getting married next year, he was the one that brought it up first so that’s why I’ve started the planning process.
So my question– did you talk over and confirm these kinda details before becoming official or did you wait for the proposal before you basically made important decisions esp involving contracts?
I’m not so much talking about decor ideas/favors/dresses etc. I’m talking major decisions like the options listed.
Thanks so much!