(Closed) Did you choose your engagement ring or did hubby?

posted 9 years ago in Proposals
  • poll: Did you pick out your engagement ring or did your fiance/husband surprise you with one?

    I picked it out.

    My fiance/husband picked it out.

    We picked it out together (joint effort!)

  • Post # 3
    1817 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    I mostly picked my ring out. Fiance was with me and helped me, his only stipulation was that the stone be a half carat, I wanted something smaller but I agreed to appease him and I love it!


    ETA: It didn’t ruin the proposal at all for me, I loved having a say in what I was going to be wearing for the rest of my life and Fiance liked knowing that I loved my ring.

    Post # 4
    12326 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I had no idea he bought it so I guess I could say he picked it out.  But  I had shown him some pictures of rings I liked.

    Post # 5
    1727 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Other. He chose the diamond (he knew the shape I liked) and picked out a setting, but he didnt order the setting. He had it in a solitaire setting that was returnable and I ended up picking out a different setting (actually end up having it special made)

    He made out though because what I made was cheaper than what he picked out.  I like the setting he picked out, but when it was on my hand it just didnt feel right for me.

    Post # 6
    1094 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

    Well, in my case, we started looking at rings after he initiated “engagement” talk.  Our ring shopping trips only happened twice and were pretty spur-of-the-moment…I tried on a few rings and he got a sense of what I liked (and didn’t like…3-stone wasn’t for me).  Honestly, they were all so pretty that while I know the desgner of my ring, I can’t honestly say whether he chose the one that was my “favorite.”  Either way, the ring he chose was perfect!

    Post # 7
    6430 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2013

    Fiance asked if I wanted to go look ay rings with him, and of course I said yes! I picked my top 2 or 3 at each store, and he ended up choosing my favorite out of them. It was pretty obvious which was my favorite.

    Post # 8
    669 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Once we decided we were going to get engaged I showed him pictures of what I like and what I didn’t like.  He knew what shapes and colors I liked.  Then he picked something out that fit the criteria.  Wouldn’t have had it any other way.  I love my ring.

    Post # 9
    718 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    He proposed with out a ring so I got to pick it out. It was a lot of fun too 🙂

    Post # 10
    1344 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012 - Franklin Plaza

    I didn’t vote… It was a joint effort! 😀

    Post # 11
    2969 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I designed it. I received the diamonds from my mother in law and custom designed what I wanted with a jeweler.

    Post # 12
    2604 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    I picked it out but asked for his input… he wanted me to have something I will love wearing for the rest of my life, but I wanted him to love it too.

    Post # 13
    248 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2018

    We went ring shopping a bazzillion times so he knew what I liked (any and everything round!) lol. He was so afraid he’d get me something I wouldn’t like but I kept telling him I just love all rings, so he has it easy! He proposed with a beautiful, delicate black diamond ring and then I picked out my ring a couple weeks later!

    Post # 14
    313 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2023

    I chose it and bought it 🙂

    Post # 15
    302 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    We picked it out together. I showed it to him in the store and hinted heavily that I absolutely loved it, and he went back and got it for me. So…actually…more like I picked it, but he thinks he did 😛 

    Post # 16
    662 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    Dad and Fiance picked it together. 

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