(Closed) Did you consummate on the big night?

posted 9 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Did you consummate on your big night?

    Yes, and on the big night!

    Sort of, we did in the AM.

    Nope, not 'til the next night or later.

  • Post # 17
    381 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    We were so excited to have all our friends and family in from out of town that we new we would want to spend time with them at the after party, but we also wanted to do have sex for the first time as a married couple on that night–before we headed to the after party we snuck up to our hotel room and (sorry if this is TMI) had a sweet little quickie without even taking my dress off! We tidied ourselves and headed back down to hang out with everyond for the rest of the night. Maybe silly, but we are glad we did πŸ™‚

    Post # 18
    2104 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    There’s a reason we had a morning wedding.  πŸ˜‰


    Post # 19
    135 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    My fiancé and I havealready talked about this πŸ˜€ Seeing as we both want the night to last as long as possible and my mom has already decided she is going to have an after party in her suite, we know we will both be too drink/tired to do anything that night other than fall into bed πŸ˜€ I’m sure we will more anmade up for it on the honeymoon thought!

    Post # 20
    11 posts

    My sister and her now husband waited until they were narried to have sex (because of their faith). They’re wedding reception ended at 10:00 and they didn’t leave the venue until a little after that. They were catching a 6am flight to Mexico the next morning and had to drive (about 30 mins) to a hotel by the Oakland aiport with a only a few hours before they had to get ready for their flight. I bet they didn’t get any sleep that night. lol

    Post # 21
    1346 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    We’re not married yet but can guarantee it will happen although as our reception is until 11we with a 30 min drive to the hotel it won’t be until the am technically :p

    Post # 22
    395 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    We did!!! It was amazing! 

    According to my BCP, I was supposed to be on my period during the honeymoon, so I skipped the pills at the end and jumped into my next package. 

    DH insisted on sex every night during our honeymoon as well. 


    Our marriage is quite consummated. πŸ™‚ 

    Post # 23
    1058 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I’ve got a story:

    Before the wedding- we discussed it and I thought- no way we will get in there an be tired and go night night.

    Afer the wedding- reality hit, there we were going into a 5 Star hotel in a tux and wedding gown (Everybody knew what we were going to do) πŸ™‚

    We got in the room (fully energized), put the food in the fridge, took off our shoes and had a very romantic time reminising the wedding day on the sofa…. and the rest is history…. WE DID Consummate “ON” our wedding night!!!! Yay!


    Post # 24
    664 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    We were both pretty tired, but as soon as he saw me in the special piece of lingerie I had chosen for that night he was wide awake. It was a great night!

    Post # 25
    2259 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    We were totally pooped. Took a shower, opened up the champagne and gifts and then called it a night. We knew if we tried to have sex it probably would have ended badly since we were so tired, not up for it. I think we knew by dinnertime it wouldn’t happen that night. 

    Post # 26
    202 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    No, he got food poisoning and was sick all night.

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