Post # 1
Did you end up asking her or not? I have 3 FSILs who I didnt ask to be BMs. Since one of them is getting married and they are in her wedding. I have 3 girls and 4 guys. I want to ask another friend of mine to be 4th but I can’t decide!! Do you think FSILs will be offended? I need some of your magic bees!
Post # 3
What does your fiance think? I mean, you can’t pick all 3, and they have other Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses to buy this year. I would ask my friend.
Post # 4
@loveknows: Are you close to any/all of them? Any of the 3 in particular? If not, then maybe just a friend as PP suggested. I thought about BMs for a while before I was engaged, and had definitely decided on 3 for sure. Then I thought about my other friend who is also a coworker and I have talked to almost every day for 6 years. I asked her with no regrets!
Definitely don’t ask any of them out of any obligation though (ie pressure from FILs).