(Closed) Did you fight alot right before the wedding?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Oh yes.  Yes yes yes, most definitely yes.

I think it’s common – don’t worry.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yeah we have both been very sensitive lately. Fighting more than normal and just being on edge. I just think the stress builds up…Im hoping that in a couple weeks things will settle. By The Way – can you believe its only 5 weeks away!?

Post # 7
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Helper bee

uggh I hear you!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

So common! My husband and I didn’t have any huge blow outs or anything, but we were definitely a lot shorter with each other and bickered a lot more. Once the wedding was over, it stopped.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Urgh, we did 🙁

 

Mind you, we never argue, we just don’t. But the last 3 ish weeks leading up to the wedding, we did over the DUMBEST things. One day, we got into a HUGE argument about Fiance slamming paper. I asked him to stop slamming things and he snapped “You can’t slam paper!”. We didn’t talk for 4 hours. Looking back we laugh about it, but not our proudest moments! 

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

It is SUCH a stressful time!  Meeting your needs, worrying about other’s needs, issues with money, plus work and life in general!  We have been arguing about the smallest things.  I’ll wake up the next morning and be like, “we fought about ICE CREAM?”

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I definitely had a super short fuse and wasn’t very attentive to Darling Husband in the weeks leading up to the wedding. We got tense with each other the night before the rehearsal and it’s just laughable now looking back at it.

Post # 13
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Busy bee

We had a lot of problems with his mom and yes we fought.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Our wedding is in 6 weeks and we have been fighting ALOT! It makes me feel really sad to think that this time leading up to the wedding is not being happy. I hope this passes. Frown

Post # 15
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Blushing bee

Ohhhhh yes.  Freaked me out a little because we never had issues arguing before that time.  I was nervous if it was a sign of things to come or am I seeing a different side?  It was stress about too many wedding details and nerves about life changing.  The arguing stopped once we said I Do.  Honestly looking back I’m embarassed at the ridiculous things we argued about.   I had let myself become super snappy, impatient, and defensive.

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

We fought more and bickered more up until the week of the wedding.  Once the week of the wedding arrived, most everything was done and we both agreed we were going to ENJOY that actual week.  Neither of us worked, we had out of town friends and family visiting, most of the wedding projects were done…and we were pretty darn happy 🙂 It was a nice change from the fighting and bickering that had gone on in the previous months.

I think it is normal, just be looking for the silver lining and try to talk things out as best you can!  🙂

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