(Closed) Did you fight alot right before the wedding?

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 17
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Not at all, however, he was in a totally different state, which I think spared him my b*tchiness =]

Post # 18
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

YES. It was really stressful, but it got so much better once we were married!

Post # 19
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Totally Yes!  It got better right before the wedding but we were both on edge.  Unfortunately, I was tense and took it out on him, then he got tense and took it out on me.  So it lasted awhile.  I think it’s normal.  

Post # 20
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

We’re definitely bickering and/or more irritiable than normal.  I catch myself getting annoyed MUCH more easiy than normal.  We’re very communicative though, which has helped a lot.  I recommend having some in depth chats about what you can both do to try to minimize the bickering.  So far, just acknowledging the stress bickering and trying to be more aware has been SOOOO helpful.

Post # 21
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

We fought a lot in the beginning of planning, mainly over his family’s ‘expectation’. Our wedding is in 2 weeks and we’re pretty much have everything done. Now, we just sit back and relax. He’s more excited and is so looking forward to the day than I am!!

Post # 22
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2012

We definitely have been fighting a LOT lately! It is less than a month until our wedding, and, to top it all off, our apartment building caught fire and half the building burned down. We didn’t know until yesterday of any of our belongings would be salvageable. Thankfully, we got in, and our apartment only has smoke damage. He also works for the apartments and had been super stressed handling this whole situation and is taking it out on me. I’m also a little shaken up and frustrated at having to wash all clothes and worrying about toxins. This has been absolutely awful and all we seem do is argue. He gets really snippy with me. It makes me really sad. I hope things improve after the wedding.

Post # 23
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

We’ve been fighting for a while now.

First he was under stress of completeing his thesis for his PhD. Now we have a wedding and then we have to get a mortgage and move out of state (for his new job) only a month after.

It causes a lot of short fuses.. I’m hoping it calms down after all of the major life changes are over.

 

 

Post # 24
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Man..we are a little less than two months away and I swear the last two weeks there has been alot of tension…we aren’t fighting but we are constantly having frustrations and misunderstandings…because we are both so busy, he’s working hard and I”m planning the wedding virtually by myself. So yeah, I mean the last few days have been back to normal, peachy and all and I just hope we can hold onto the bliss as the wedding approaches but chances ae stress will rear it’s head again.

 

Post # 25
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: December 2013

Hi, We are getting married in december. I’m worried that we are fighting often because of small things, small reasons. I don’t know if it is just a test because we are getting married few months from now. We had a fight. I left our house to assist my brother in getting a job. My boyfriend is so upset when I got home because he wasn’t able to eat lunch because I left him with no food. He always wants me to prepare his food. When I got home he didn’t talk to me for an hour, before the night ends he said he is leaving and he is staying with his sister for the mean time. He didn’t eat the food i brought for him. Until the next day, he starved himself. He get off the bed at around 1030am and packed his things and left. His sister talked to him. He said he is just trying to cool himself down and he will be back here in our home once his okay. What will I do? Please reply…  🙁

Post # 26
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

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@duxandrok:  nothing to really do but wait I guess till things calm down. Keep us posted on how things go. There is so much stress involved in wedding planning and relationships 🙁 hope things turn out ok

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