(Closed) Did you get the invitation?

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1710 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013 - Walt Disney World

I don’t see the problem with your parents contacting them and asking them.

Post # 4
2212 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Yeah, I’d let your parents contact them if they’re really concerned about it.  I would also assume that they just haven’t sent the RSVP back yet; not that it was lost.

I’d just wait until the RSVP deadline and make them the first on your list to call.  Whether they just haven’t sent the card back yet, or it’s been lost in the mail, you’ll be in contact with them about the wedding and they’ll know they’ve been invited either way.

Post # 5
278 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

My parents would have no problem saying something to their friends. Maybe like… “OH did you get your invitation? Aren’t they cute/pretty/fun?”

Post # 6
10453 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

I don’t see a problem with asking if they received it. I wouldn’t harass about the RSVP yet though, but asking if they got it is fine. 

Post # 7
1022 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@Mulan05:  if they are super worried I’d just call them myself and say that you know some have already gotten lost, and/or returned so you wanted to ensure it arrived.


or just wait till the deadline and then call

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