Post # 1
I’m at 7dpo and the crazy is taking over. With my MC, I had BFNs until 12dpo, when I finally got a super squinter with my FRER. (I now wonder if that was a bad sign of what was to come…but that’s another story.) Hoping the next BFP will show up sooner!
Anyway, I am just curious: for bees who have had more than one pregnancy and tested early, did you get your BFP on the same DPO each time or was it different?
Post # 2
I have had two pregnancies, the first one was a chemical and I’m 28 weeks with the second, and with both I tested for the first time and got my BFP on 11dpo.
Post # 3
My first pregnancy I got my BFP at 11dpo in the afternoon, that pregnancy ended in mc at 8 weeks.
My second pregnancy I got a super squinter at 9dpo and an obvious positive the next morning at 10dpo, that pregnancy resulted in my now 4 week old son.
Post # 4
With my chemical, I got the BFP on 13 DPO.
With our little guy here, I got the BFP on 9DPO in the evening with diluted pee.
So, I guess for me, the earlier BFP was the more “solid” one. Maybe for you too!
Post # 5
I can’t answer your question as I’m still TTC #1, but I just wanted to say we are twins in both cycle and anxiety. I’m 8dpo after a cycle that ended in a CP, in which I got my first squinter at 13dpo. Since then I’ve read up on how the day of implantation can indicate increased risk of MC or CP.
I’m dying this TWW – I’ve already tested 4 times (I read some research article that says it is possible for a blastocyst to implant 6dpo). Here’s hoping we get through this TWW without lasting psychological damage! ❤️🌮
Post # 6
Thank you ladies! Really heartwarming to hear about so many successful pregnancies after MCs.
Post # 7
I’m so sorry about your CP bee. Happy to have a cycle/anxiety twin though!! FX for you! 8dpo is the earliest I’ve ever heard of anyone getting a BFP, so you are far from out! I am really gonna try not to test until Sunday (9dpo)…but we’ll see lol.
And I think there might be some truth in the idea that a late implanter is correlated to higher risk of MC or something. I mean I haven’t researched this at all, but anecdotally it seems legit. In my case, my BFP took forever to arrive, and then my lines took forever to darken (even appearing to get lighter for awhile). I had really low HCG at my first beta on 4w4d, but it tripled on the second draw 48 hours later, tricking my doctor and me into thinking all was well. My lines did eventually get super dark – I was beating the control on clinical guard a mere 48 hours before I abruptly miscarried at 6.5 weeks. Chilling. In sum, the whole dreadful experience has taught me to TRUST NOTHING.
SO EFFING ANXIOUS this time…I don’t know how people deal with the stress. I am going to be a wreck if I do get a BFP.
Post # 8
Sending hugs to get through this anxious time! I can 100% relate to feeling like such a wreck! xoxo I don’t think we will TTC this month; I feel like I need to focus on my mental health and happiness for a bit after our chemical on Christmas.
My first M/C was still clearly a negative on the day my period was due! I didn’t test again because I was so sure I wasn’t pregnant. Got a clear positive when I tested again at No AF+4 days. With my chemical this month, I got a faint positive 11dpo. There was definitely no line 10dpo.
Have you seen this chart for pregnancy test results by DPO? Kind of obsessed after someone else recommended it, don’t recall whom.
Post # 9
I agree with you; if I get pregnant, I just know I am going to have a really hard time relaxing, enjoying the experience, and not obsessing that every new or unexpected symptom (or LACK of symptom) is indicative of impending MC. Knowledge is power , sure – but oftentimes it’s a burden, too.
Post # 10
I’m so sorry you are going through this, I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. I trawled the internet for positive stories after my miscarriage, it’s an awful time.
I want you to know you aren’t alone. Someone told me after my mc that I’ll have the baby I’m meant to have and it was the best advice I ever got. This time last year I was about to miscarry, this year it’s 4.20 am and I’m up feeding my newborn son.
It DOES get better, I promise and it’s worth every shitty second. Hang in there xx
Post # 11
With Dear Daughter I got a super faint pos (wouldn’t say squinter cause it was def there), at 9dpo.
With my chemical I got a faint line around 11dpo
this time I got my line on 12dpo…we were traveling on 11 so I didn’t test at all but I would have likely seen something. I did cave and test on 10dpo and it was stark white so…. 😂
Post # 12
1st pregnancy – BFP at 13dpo that ended in MC
2nd pregnancy -BFP at 13dpo and Dear Daughter is now 3.5
3rd pregnancy – BFP at 13dpo ended in MC
4th pregnancy – BFP at 9dpo which was super super strong and DS is now 1.5
i was tempting and all that and each time I got a BFP it was the first time I tested
Post # 13
Dear Daughter1 – faint positive on 9dpo
Pregnamcy 2 – faint positive 8dpo which ended in miscarriage at 6+1
Dear Daughter2 – faint positive on 9dpo
Pregnancy 4 – strong positive around 14dpo (didn’t test before and wasn’t charting) which ended in a MMC at 10 weeks
Pregnancy 5 -clear positive 10dpo (didn’t test before) and I’m currently 7 weeks and keeping everything crossed it will be a sticky baby
Post # 14
I didn’t chart with either, so take my “DPO” with a grain of salt.
However, my first pregnancy I didn’t get a BFP until the day my period was due, and with my second pregnancy I got a BFP 2 days before my period was due (which ended in a MMC at 12 weeks).
Post # 15
First pregnancy I didn’t test until after my missed period, and it was instantly darker than control.
Second pregnancy I tested from around 8dpo, but didn’t get a (faint) positive until my period was due. It got a little darker the next day, but not really. That ended at 6 weeks.
This pregnancy I had a squinter at 8dpo and a very definitive positive at 10dpo. Dark as the control at 12dpo, darker at 14dpo. I’m hoping it’s a good sign! My hcg levels were nice and high at 5 weeks 🙂