- 9 years ago
My Maid/Matron of Honor drove everyone crazy including me prior and during my wedding. This entry is very long and full of drama 🙂
She planned our wedding shower without consulting my BMs and my sister who was also my Matron of Honour. I specifically told her before that she and my sister have to plan it. But nope, she went ahead and planned it on her own. We were informed about the wedding shower a week before it was supposed to happen. The day before the shower, she told me that she won’t be able to pick the trays of rotisserie chickens and potatoes that she ordered coz she can’t borrow her mom’s car. I was forced to ask my fiance to pick them up for us coz my sister has a baby and the rest of my family can’t pick them up too. She then called me the same night telling me that the cake will be delivered at noon the following day and my sister needs to pay half for it and half for the chicken that my sister didn’t order. My sister already forked out money with all the grocery that she bought to make 5 dishes the following day with my mom. My sister was fuming of course coz she didn’t wanna pay for something she didn’t order or consulted with. The day of the shower, my Maid/Matron of Honor kept rushing me to open the presents. I thought she was just excited for me to see what she got me (i already knew coz she told me way before that she’s buying me the pots and pans set only not in the colour that i wanted which was blue, but instead in stainless steel coz the lady at the store said it’s better quality). I didn’t know that she was rushing me to open up the presents coz she wanted to go home already. She took off as soon as i finish opening everything.
Then came the bachelorette party. I had to plan it myself with the BMs coz the BMs hated the Maid/Matron of Honor so my Maid/Matron of Honor refused to plan it. I was a young bride and my BMs were younger than me so they weren’t really expert when it comes to bachelorette stuff. Anyways, we decided to go to this one place which is closer to our location and had something that interest me, the go-go dancers lol! 1 week prior to that event she called me screaming saying that “i just spoke to my co-workers, and that place where u want to go is full of COUGARS, COUGARS, ok!” I was having a bad day that day and kinda yelled back and said “SO what? We’re going ok!” Then she called my friend whom she hates and told him that i’m taking out my stress on her which is so unfair.
Then the wedding rehearsal came (two days before the wedding). I have an uneven number of boys and girls for our wedding party. It was large, but i was off 1 boy because i had 2 MOHs. My friend was supposed to be partnered up with the best man and my sister by herself. But during the ceremony, the officiant made my sister Maid/Matron of Honor and the best man to partner up coz they would be the one signing our marriage licence. Oh man, was she ever mad! She’s like “what the hell is this?!” The bridal party got to our wedding rehearsal dinner location first and all my sister could hear was my friend saying “is SHE here yet?! I need to speak to her! I’m confused!” I kinda avoided her the whole night coz i just didn’t need the tantrum in front of my family. By the end of the night, i told her that my sister will partner up with the best man for the ceremony and she can have him at the reception. She was all smiles after.
The day before the wedding, my BMs were at my house helping out with last minute stuff. My friend Maid/Matron of Honor took the whole day off just like she said a month ago. She was a no-show though. She called me at 5 pm asking how i was. I said i was busy cleaning the house for pictures tomorrow and asked if she can come over and help since all the BMs have gone home. She said she can’t coz she has no car. I quickly replied “then i gotta go” and hang up the phone. I was up with my sister Maid/Matron of Honor til 3 am coz we had so much stuff to do. We had to get up at 5 am.
Then here comes the wedding day! I hired stylists for all the girls so they can get their hair and make up done at my house since we start early. My friend Maid/Matron of Honor wasn’t there coz she told me months ago as well that she wants to go somewhere else to get her hair and make up done. That place apparently really knows how to make her look pretty. I didn’t care. I said ok. The BMs weren’t happy about it though coz she put herself first instead of me again. Then before the ceremony, she was speaking to her mom (whom was wearing white FYI) coz her mom wasn’t feeling well. My friend Maid/Matron of Honor went up to my mom and asked if she had a bottled water. My mom said nope and she got mad at my mom. My mom got upset and told my sister. My sister thankfully didn’t strangle her and tried to brush it off…
Anyone else had the same craziness happened to them????