(Closed) Did you have a love/hate relationship with your wedding?

posted 6 years ago in Logistics
Post # 3
2874 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

im having a love/hate thing with the entire process. i swing from loving organising it all to getting overwhelmed and being completely anti-wedding

enjoyed food tasting and picking venue. rest of the logistics are weighing me down!

Post # 4
2692 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2012


venue shopping

food tasting

Booking vendors

MAde me exhausted:

finding a caterer

researching affordable venors and venues

Didn’t really love:

Dress shopping although when I found my dress it was like this “ahhhhhhhhhh” moment.

Also ddidn’t love assembling all the invitations.  It was a more extensive process than i thought it would be but I wanted what I wanted so I did it.  TUrned out great.

I do love the whole planning process but I am so ready for the day to get here.

Post # 5
132 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012


Booking Chivari chairs

Finding the guest chairs that I wanted

Shopping for jewelry and shoes for dress

Made me exhausted



decorating ideas

dyi projects

money – when is it coming…


wedding dress shopping – had to be modest

dealing with the linen vendor I found on WB.  love her prices but she took days to respond!





Post # 6
4951 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

No…we eloped, so it was all easy! 🙂

Post # 7
837 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’ll be honest (it’s no secret on here or in real life) — I am not a fan of any of it. Hated dress shopping, hate having to dig out the forest of weeds that sprang up in the last month in the back yard, hate the whole “are you excited?!” virus that’s going around. 

Sigh. That’s not TOTALLY fair. I love the details, the DIY crafty stuff. I’m good at that. I know those things will be awesome. And I love our rings. But if we hadn’t forked over money for my dress / his suit, this thing would have been nixed two months ago before my grandparents bought tickets into town and we would have gone to dinner with a few folks and signed papers that day. That was the original plan. But then I had a mini stroke and totally forgot who I was and said, “You know what? I like the idea of having people there, and I know you’d like it to be a little bit more than just dinner at a sports bar, so let’s do something small in the back yard.” Ugh. 

Really, though, I’ll survive. IF the dress fits tomorrow. Stupid, stupid dress, giving me nothing but attitude. 

Post # 8
33 posts
  • Wedding: June 2013


going to wedding shows and getting ideas

shopping for jewelry and shoes


Stressed me out:

the cake – fh was soooo frustrating because he wants a “unique” design, let me tell you that translates into ugly as all heck. Serious compromise had to be reached.

the budget

finding a new photographer after we put down a deposit and took e-pics


wedding dress shopping 

shopping for my mother’s dress – OMG kill me!


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