(Closed) Did you have a stripper at your bachelorette party?

posted 5 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
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Busy Beekeeper

Nope, not because I am opposed but… frankly, I saw enough naked men in my single days, a stripper would have simply been silly.

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I didn’t have a bachelorette party but if I would’ve then I wouldn’t have wanted a stripper there. I don’t think my friends would’ve arranged for one, they know me well enough 🤗

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

No strippers at mine. 

Post # 5
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Helper bee

Despite me being very firm on the issue, my ex Mother-In-Law arranged a stripper for my hen do. He was about 45 (I was 19) and it was horribly humiliating. 

If anyone organises one for my hen do next year I will be seriously unhappy. Everyone will be under strict instructions. Although I don’t think I need to worry, none of my friends would do that. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I had a stripper but I was asked way in advance if I was ok with it. I knew it would be a bit of a laugh so I agreed. It was definitely very funny, not sexy at.all but all the girls remember it and frequently laugh about it!! 

If I was organising a hen party/bachellorette I’d be absolutely sure to ask the bride to be her thoughts on a stripper. I think you can tell when it’s a definite ‘no’ vs ‘why not!’ 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

No stripper at my Bridal Party.  Frankly, if I had a stripper, I would request a female one.  I have been to male strip clubs, and they’re really aggressive.  I have seen them put their clients’ hands directly on their dong (a flimsy piece of cloth covering it) and move their hands up and down like they’re stroking it and one of the girls I went with told me that one of the strippers sucked her nipples during a lap dance.  I know she enjoyed it, but still, a little too much for me.  Another time, a group of three male strippers were rubbing themselves all over me on stage.  They put me on the stage and yeah.  It was quite traumatizing.  Female strippers are much more subdue.  

Post # 8
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Busy bee

My bestie talked about going to a strip club during my upcoming Bridal Party but she was concerned about freaking out the other girls on the trip lol

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

No I didn’t.  It’s gross and classless.  

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

I don’t want a stripper at mine. I would personally be very uncomfortable in that situation. Neither my fiancé or I will be having strippers involved at either of our parties because we find that to be inappropriate for two people in a committed relationship to be engaging in. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

nope. My fiance would have not liked that at all!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

No stripper at mine. I had a party at my MOHs house for my bachelorette- we drank, played games, had a campfire etc. I would have been so embarrassed if they got me a stripper. I can see my fiance’s body any time I want, I don’t need a strangers junk flapping around in my face lol

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

No, I didn’t either. But to me, that scenario would constitute cheating (whether at bachelor party or bachelorette) so that’s why it wasn’t even an option.

However my personal opinion aside– if you both agree and are okay with him having strippers/strip clubs as part of a bachelor party, I think you shouldn’t have any hesitation if you want them, too! (But I would recommend making your guests aware of it beforehand too, so they can make their own personal choices to be present for that or not – or maybe have an easy alternative to leave and go somewhere else for a while without feeling like a party-pooper or stuck witnessing something uncomfortable.)

Post # 14
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Newbee

I’ll be the odd bee out and say YES there was one at my party and it was hilarious! My party was pretty alcohol infused and we were already pretty drunk by the time he got there. Every girl there knew this was not going to be anything sensual, and we were very right. It was just funny and a funny, slightly hazy, memory

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I had a stripper named Shane. Everyone in my circle, upper middle-class women with good careers hired Shane for their bachelorette parties. He was super hot, very professional too. My friend had her party at the Hyatt on Sunset (a crazy enough place as it is:) and one of her friends got really drunk and tried to hit on him.

Nope. He did not touch anyone, nor was anyone allowed to touch him. He came to my house where my party was and one of my friends, who had been super excited about the show, drank too much and missed the whole thing. On his way out, he tucked a business card into her hand. She’s mad to this day. Lol

If it happens, have fun because why should guys have a monopoly on strippers?😉

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