(Closed) Did you have sex on your wedding night? Or think you will?

posted 4 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Bees who didn't wait until marriage for sex, did you do it on your wedding night?
    Married, and we had sex : (138 votes)
    39 %
    Married, and we didn't have sex : (71 votes)
    20 %
    Not yet married, and expect to have sex : (94 votes)
    26 %
    Not yet married, and don't expect to have sex : (53 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 61
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    We planned to… but didn’t until the next morning. We were both exhausted after the wedding and after-party. (I actually fell asleep in the in-room jacuzzi. Darling Husband sweetly rescued the champagne glass from my hands, woke me up, and suggested we sleep in the bed instead.) 

    Post # 62
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    270 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: July 2016

    Pshhhh we’ll be too drunk!!! hahahaha. 

    Post # 63
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    615 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2015

    We did not have sex and that was ok! We had the most amazing (and exhausting) wedding and reception ever!! We ended going out to a little pub afterwards (at like 1 am) for some food and to sober up a little. My hubs walked back to the hotel with a few cousins because he was drunk and tired, and I stayed for a bit longer with my sister and Maid/Matron of Honor. I got back to the room and he was passed out with half of our cards opened and spread out on the bed next to him!! HAHA he just couldnt wait! Anyways we had sex that next day and that was just fine. I was glad we didnt put pressure on ourselves and just let loose and had fun! =)

    Post # 64
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    1992 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    Not at all. In fact, the main reason my husband wanted to have a morning wedding, was so that we wouldn’t be too tired to do it, after the reception. Well we spent all night partying with the wedding party, and didn’t go back to our room, until well after midnight. We were pooped, but we lit some candles and got in the jacuzzi any way. We talked kind of dirty to each other, then both fell asleep in the water within about 5 minutes. When we woke up and realized we had fallen asleep, we decided to get out of the jacuzzi and head to the bedroom.  There was more dirty talk. 5 minutes later we were sleep again. We woke up the next morning, naked on top of the covers, sleeping head to foot. We had good intentions, but it just didn’t work out.

    Post # 65
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    1204 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    Hmm… sleeping in an old building with shared bathrooms and 30 of our relatives right down the hallway… YES, AND WE WILL BE LOUD ABOUT IT.

    (JK, we’ll probably be too drunk.)

    Post # 66
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    969 posts
    Busy bee

    We did! Even though I was 90% sure we’d be wayyyyy too exhausted to. Left wedding at 00:15, stopped by my parents house to pick up stuff, arrived at hotel 01:30, got a free upgrade to a suite with rose petals everywhere – would’ve been rude not to!

    Post # 67
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    391 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2017

    We have sex pretty much everyday and I do not expect that night to be any different!

    Post # 68
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    2057 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I had to talk Fiance out of bathroom reception sex haha so yeah there will be sex after the wedding. He will not be too tired. 

    Post # 69
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    130 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: January 2017

    With my first marriage, we were too drunk and didn’t. 

    Thistime, I’m following but Dam Savage’s advice: f*** first. I’m not expecting action on the wedding night, but expect that we’ll start our day with some connected time.

    Post # 70
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    543 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2014 - Maui

    We did, but we eloped to Maui. Pretty much no excuse not to do it in our situation.

    Post # 71
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    729 posts
    Busy bee

    Not married yet, but i sure hope we do!! Lol

    Post # 72
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    1200 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2015 - Malibou Lake Mountain Club

    rendezvous89:  i thought we werent due to how late it would be and expected to be tired but we did. 

    Post # 73
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    3306 posts
    Sugar bee

    Not married, but I think I will be exhausted and he will most likely be too drunk lol. I don’t mind if we do or don’t.

    Post # 74
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    1336 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2016 - Painswick Church and the Falcon Hotel

    I thought you have to? To consummate the marriage 

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