(Closed) Did you help pick you engagement ring?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
11520 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

Mrs.Sawyertobe:  we picked the setting together, we met with the sales person and I told them what was important to me in terms of the 4C’s.  FH and I agreed that I would know nothing about when he bought it and the actual diamond selection was his. 

He loves that he picked the diamond on my finger – I love that I helped pick the setting and we both agreed it was ‘the one’

Post # 4
43 posts
  • Wedding: May 2014

No I didn’t help and that’s mostly because he’s a stinker and never asks for help with anything. HA. That ring is amazeballs. Nice work. 

Post # 5
1983 posts
Buzzing bee

I just told him that I didn’t like yellow gold and princess cut stones were my favorite, and let him do the rest. Of course if he had gotten me a yellow gold band with any cut I would have been perfectly fine because it was a gift from him. I would have gladly taken a string tied around my finger by the time he finally proposed. Haha!


Post # 6
3194 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

sort of? we went together to try on rings (his suggestion) and they wrote down the style numbers of all our favorites. he ended up getting my favorite one, with a round stone (my favorite!) even though he said he wanted to get me a princess. we sort of narrowed it down together but he had the ultimate decision.

Post # 7
2120 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I picked out my ring, and he agreed it was the best one I tried on. I wouldn’t have it any other way, especially since my fiance said he didn’t trust himself AT ALL with the decision, even if he had the exact picture of what I wanted.  Which is good, because I tried on what I thought I wanted, and it was too cutesy (floral halo). And since I’m the one wearing it every day, I’m so pleased I was able to choose one that fits me and my style.

Post # 8
1009 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I helped. Mainly because I wanted to show him the style I thought I liked. But then when I saw it on my finger, I wasn’t such a fan. He pointed to something I wouldn’t have noticed, but when I saw it on my finger, we both went “ohhhhhh.” I don’t think I missed out on anything by being there, and am glad to have had the experience of learning that I didn’t really like what I thought I liked.

Post # 9
1612 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

Mrs.Sawyertobe:  Only thing I told him was white gold and solitaire. Everything else was all him. He picked perfectly.

Post # 10
21 posts

We purchased my engagement ring after we were engaged; I wore a stand-in in the mean time. We picked out the center diamond together, though Fiance didn’t care about shape, he just wanted to be sure it was good quality. I picked the setting myself, I couldn’t help it, I fell in love with a picture of it that I found right after he first told me to do some research, six months before I actually received my lovely, and nothing else we looked at compared. My engagement ring is really my favorite piece of jewelry! 

Post # 11
4133 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Not even a little bit. Our entire conversation went like this – Darling Husband “I always thought you’d like an antique/vintage ring”. Me – “yes, I would”.

That was it. He picked it out totally on his own. It’s fromthe 1920’s and absolutley perfect.

Post # 12
6021 posts
Bee Keeper

Darling Husband and I picked mine out together. The first time, we picked the setting together and sort of picked the stone. I say “sort of” because we were there together and I intended for him to pick the center stone. It turned out I was a lot better at distinguishing color and clarity than he was, so I ended up picking out 3 stones that were what we were looking for. And he made the final choice of what went into the ring.

For my anniversary “upgrade”, I had fallen head over heels for the setting months earlier. Darling Husband surprised me with saying we could get it. Then I picked the center stone, although he had final approval. He actually told me to get a larger stone than I had originally looked at –LOL.

Post # 13
1896 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

My Fiance was terrified at the thought of blindly picking my ring, but he still wanted to surprise me.  I picked out three different rings (a range of prices) and he picked out which one.  It was fun because I knew that I was going to get one that I loved and he still got to surprise me.

Post # 14
217 posts
Helper bee

Mrs.Sawyertobe:  I’d say I did more picking than he did, haha. I chose to go with moissanite, I chose the OEC (though he said he really likes the stone), and I’ve designed the setting, with his input along the way. Though, his input has always been “if you like it, I like it”. I’ve always shown him pictures and designs, he just doesn’t really care, he just wants me to love it, and that’s all that matters to him. 

Post # 15
537 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Mrs.Sawyertobe:  I chose mine Completely all me! I knew I wanted diamond set shoulders so he helped me search to find one but in the end he didn’t mind or have any stipulation on the ring as I’m the one wearing it. He knows me well but I don’t think he could have chosen such an important thing for me. I didn’t entirely know what I wanted before we looked so how he could have seems impossible! 

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