(Closed) did you invite someone you DIDN’T want at your wedding? how did it go?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

It sounds like she may using this an opprotunity to do one of two things:

A) The best option. Maybe she is ready to make amends, especially if you two will be working together again.

B) Maybe she just wants to compare the two weddings (yours and hers)

I hope that A is the right answer!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m sure she really wants to come if she is RSVP’ing yes.

I had to invite a family member who I just don’t like, he’s a total A-hole. Him and my brother also strongly dislike each other…and very likely, the problem relative isn’t going to go to my wedding so it worked out. I’m sure it will work out in your situation, too and you will be too busy to even notice her!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ya thats weird. You could also seat chart her into an akward place next to people who think its weird she’s there to just for fun, jk ;P

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

this is why Im not inviting people who I honestly do not want there (because theres always a chance they will say yes!)

we are having a pretty small wedding tho and Im not inviting anyone from work 😛

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Well, if the whole office was invited I’m not surprised she’s going. She would look rude if she didn’t, and to be honest, you’re basically throwing a party that she gets to attend and have fun at. It’s not like she’ll really have to see you much, unless she seeks you out.

I would personally place her at the leftovers table, if for some odd reason anybody mentions it, just say she was the last to RSVP from the group. 😉

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

maybe your coworker just has nothing else to do that weekend, lol? I was really shocked when one of my coworkers, who just recently started working with us who I also invited out of politeness, RSVPed yes to our wedding, even though it was 6 hours away!

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